How to Develop Skills
Everybody has something there good at or something they enjoy. Did you ever thought about the way how you developed this talent. For example I first discovered ping pong when I was 10 years old. From the first time I played the game. I loved it but I was far from good at it. But because I liked it so much I could play for hours and hours. And I was a happy person when I learned something new. After a few years I was one off the best ping pong players in my town. And I became very good at explaining it also. I can teach someone to play and I can learn them to like to game. The people I learned the game said wow you have talent for this and I would think, Yeah I guess I’m just good at it. But when I thought about it this wasn’t true because when I started out. I was the worst player off al my friends. But because I loved it I wanted to become better, so learning the game wasn’t boring. I didn’t see this as learning because when I thought off learning I thought off school and school was boring.
So what I’m trying to say here. It doesn’t matter if your good or bad at something. If you like what you do you will learn it eventually. With getting a girl its exactly the same when I came to this site about a year ago I’ve never asked for advice because most of my answers where already on the site. There where tips I did not understood and there where tips I instantly understood and why they worked and how I could apply them.
So I tried the things that looked like fun and if they worked for me I learned more about them.
So my advice to you guys look for your personal answers and try the things which YOU think will make you better. If they do it will be fun to continue and you see result faster. And because you understand what your doing it looks naturally and you don’t have to force it upon you.
A lot a you guys come here because they want to change I don’t think you have to change I think you have to develop. If you look at the most successful persons in the world they didn’t change they choose a something they liked and they learned a lot about it.
So only use a tip from this site if you fully understand why your are using it. So don’t just ignore a girl just because it is said here. Know why your doing it.
Goodluck
Everybody has something there good at or something they enjoy. Did you ever thought about the way how you developed this talent. For example I first discovered ping pong when I was 10 years old. From the first time I played the game. I loved it but I was far from good at it. But because I liked it so much I could play for hours and hours. And I was a happy person when I learned something new. After a few years I was one off the best ping pong players in my town. And I became very good at explaining it also. I can teach someone to play and I can learn them to like to game. The people I learned the game said wow you have talent for this and I would think, Yeah I guess I’m just good at it. But when I thought about it this wasn’t true because when I started out. I was the worst player off al my friends. But because I loved it I wanted to become better, so learning the game wasn’t boring. I didn’t see this as learning because when I thought off learning I thought off school and school was boring.
So what I’m trying to say here. It doesn’t matter if your good or bad at something. If you like what you do you will learn it eventually. With getting a girl its exactly the same when I came to this site about a year ago I’ve never asked for advice because most of my answers where already on the site. There where tips I did not understood and there where tips I instantly understood and why they worked and how I could apply them.
So I tried the things that looked like fun and if they worked for me I learned more about them.
So my advice to you guys look for your personal answers and try the things which YOU think will make you better. If they do it will be fun to continue and you see result faster. And because you understand what your doing it looks naturally and you don’t have to force it upon you.
A lot a you guys come here because they want to change I don’t think you have to change I think you have to develop. If you look at the most successful persons in the world they didn’t change they choose a something they liked and they learned a lot about it.
So only use a tip from this site if you fully understand why your are using it. So don’t just ignore a girl just because it is said here. Know why your doing it.
Goodluck