how to deal with "friends" hitting on your girl

[El Payaso]

He's not really your friend then.

 

[Ryan Adams]

he's really not

 

[Ryan Adams]

I would call him out on it the instant it happened, and do it in front of the girl. After he does something ridiculous, turn to her and say, "awww! That's cute. He's showing off - he must like you!" And do it with a legit smile, act like you are encouraging the girl to appreciate the gesture. Then watch as his market value takes a nose-dive.

And that ties in to a larger idea, if your attitude in these situations is always "fine, you can have the b!tch if you want her that much," then the woman will never go with him. It is evolutionary psychology at work. The harder he tries, the less his value must be. That's why he never gets attractive women.

this is the advice I was looking for. don't go Into panic mode trying trying to him rush her with affection just stand back and let him try all he wants

 

[wifehunter]

Get dressed up as a drag queen and hit on your friends! lolz

That'll show em!!!

 

[chuotshin]

I also want to share my experience. I think in your case you are more lucky than me. I treat my bro kindfully and he backstap me. He know that I and my gf broke up and he started to chase her and say something bad about me to please her. What a crap experience ! But Ive already say goodbye to him. Im searching for the way to deal with people like him if I meet that type of **** again... But honestly I really want to hit him in the face