How to Daygame?

[TitanSS]

I am absolutely terrible at picking up when in random situations when they're not obviously looking for a guy.. especially if it is in a public place.

How do most of you go about day gaming with say, you feel like the girl who is cutting your hair is flirting with you.

She could have some amount of interest or she could just be overly nice because it's her job. How do you distinguish the two and how do you go about asking her out?

 

[apprenticedj]

I think daygame is the toughest aspect of the DJ lifestyle but ONLY if you approach it with an outcome in mind. If you go out there saying "I need to get some numbers today" and you go home empty handed you're going to be kicking yourself. Instead approach daygame with zero expectations, be ougoing and fun, smile and try to have some basic conversations. When you get some ladies talking look out for IOI's. How do you know for sure she's interested in you or just being polite? You can never know for sure so you just have to go for it. She might give you the number or she might shoot you down coldblooded but at least you'll have your answer. With hair dressers, cashiers, waitresses etc I don't usually ask for the number during our first interaction. If it's someplace I frequent I usually visit a few times, try to assess her IL on a few different occasions and then I go in for the digits. Then again this is just MY method, do what feels comfortable for you.

Again: just be welcoming and casual and don't worry about asking for the number intially.

 

[BeDJ]

Did you think day game would be easy? If it was, men wouldn't have any problems getting laid.

For a moment,

Forget SoSuave.
Forget PUA tactics.
Forget Youtube videos.
Forget Pook.
Forget the DJ Bible.
Forget about seducing women.

Why are men afraid to approach women? They think they will get rejected.
Why do they think they will get rejected? It's the most painful outcome.
Why? I-I don't know...because it...doesn't feel great I guess

If that woman wasn't cutting your hair, she would have been cutting someone else's hair. If she was busy, someone else would have been cutting your hair. When you treat it like and approach and make her the target, that's when some of the most retarded things comes out of your mouth. Sometimes, you'll be a Stuttering Stanley. No fun.

Take the approach out of the approach. She won't grab her rape whistle and the conversation will go more smoothly. The better the conversation, the easier to build rapport and more success you have of number closing. How do you do it? I usually charge $4.99 for this, but I'll give it to you this one time for free.

ASK FVCKING QUESTIONS.

People love to talk about themselves. The more you ask, the more she reveals. You are the one conducting the interview, you are naturally in control of the conversation and leading to where it will go.

How long have you been cutting hair for?
Did you have to go to school?
Only 2 years? I'm not an experiment am I?
Was that school here?
Oh, what brings you here then?
Your husbands family? That's cool.
(silence)

Damn, I had a better example.

 

[mustfirstregister]

ok, you wanna be good at DG. my advise, do 12k approaches, i'm not kidding. I did that. Once you finish everything will be revealed. I'm close to 15k approaches or so now.

 

[_sideways_]

I like to ask girls if my shirt/coat fits or looks good on me. But only when I feel playful and I use that on the model types. Day game is just living your life....remember before tv and all that social conditioning, we used to mess with girls at school, park, anywhere because they caught our eyes for a moment... And we reacted to it.....and then we went on with our lives.