"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to be more sexual verbally?

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Any good DJ-like pointers? Looking for good examples cause I really need to start doing this!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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no, you don't need to verbally be sexual, you need to be sexual with your tone of voice and your body language, but not with your mouth...until you know for sure she's hooked. Innuendo is good but blatent sexuality is a turn off in my experience.
 

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moneyisking said:
actions speak louder than words. Use Kino
What is Kino? I've heard that used a few times on this board. Anyone that can provide a link it would be helpful. Still learning my way around this site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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moneyisking

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DK1974 said:
What is Kino? I've heard that used a few times on this board. Anyone that can provide a link it would be helpful. Still learning my way around this site.
I don't know if I can explain better than the master Don Juans who actually DO it NATURALLY. I still have to think consciously to do it sometimes, but anyways;

Kino is basically the kinesthetics or the art of touching.

There's two kinds of kino: casual kino and sexual kino.

Casual kinos are like touching her shoulder, brushing her arm when you tell her bye or etc, pat her on the shoulder or back, hitting her in the arm lightly when you guys are playing around (ya, if you go Tyson on her a$$, you be thrown in jail).

Sexual kinos are what girls do real well. You know when they touch your legs, inner thigh, scratch their finger tips on your back, neck, arms, etc. For example, you pat her hair and slightly brush your hands down to her cheeks, that's a sexual kino. It's quite obvious what casual kino is and sexual kino is.

Check out her response when you do this. If she doesn't like it, then I suggest you to next her.

By the way, if you don't kino girls as soon you normally (normally) can, YOU ARE A NICE GUY. So do that kino sir. It's kind of weird but to be a sexual man, I believe this is what you must master. I bet all the Don Juans know to do Kino.
 

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moneyisking said:
I don't know if I can explain better than the master Don Juans who actually DO it NATURALLY. I still have to think consciously to do it sometimes, but anyways;

Kino is basically the kinesthetics or the art of touching.

There's two kinds of kino: casual kino and sexual kino.

Casual kinos are like touching her shoulder, brushing her arm when you tell her bye or etc, pat her on the shoulder or back, hitting her in the arm lightly when you guys are playing around (ya, if you go Tyson on her a$$, you be thrown in jail).

Sexual kinos are what girls do real well. You know when they touch your legs, inner thigh, scratch their finger tips on your back, neck, arms, etc. For example, you pat her hair and slightly brush your hands down to her cheeks, that's a sexual kino. It's quite obvious what casual kino is and sexual kino is.

Check out her response when you do this. If she doesn't like it, then I suggest you to next her.

By the way, if you don't kino girls as soon you normally (normally) can, YOU ARE A NICE GUY. So do that kino sir. It's kind of weird but to be a sexual man, I believe this is what you must master. I bet all the Don Juans know to do Kino.
the date I originally went out on was meh, Went out with two girls both real nice bodies, one I "guess" had a bf (she locked herself away in the bahtroom the whole night wtf?) other has a busted up face so Carlito=pass. Even though she was very attracted to me.

so to my example of sexual kino for you lads, last night I was walking the strip downtown over here after that date. See a hot broad+average chic on a bench, another guy was gaming them. Ugh I look back and I kind of **** blocked a little but I came in and winged him a bit and vice versa. Swear he could be frequenting a forum like this, any PUA's named LUCAS here who met a Carlito recently? lol Anyways, I bs with hot broad, she immediately tells me how "sexy" I am...yadda whatever, it's her bday, I motion for a hug before I leave, lots of real good eye contact (gorgeous eyes she had BTW) I tell her "I could just freakin' kiss you right now" *as I caress the back of her head and neck* *she is stunned and doesn't move at all*

I move in for a kiss than just stop suddenly and say "yet I won't" (just messing with her a bit, trying some new stuff) she likes "I just met you and don't even know you!!" *I laugh, knowing she wanted it just as bad* "What I'm a man who lives with no regrets and enjoys taking risks!" She's very much into me now more than ever or she could have walked away at any sec but she didn't.....next thing you know we have literally like 3-4 of her guy friends+others glued to some windows of the lounge we were in front of just gawking like seriously wtf!!@ !

I hand her my phone and say "Put in your number" she obliges of course :) and we go separate ways as I had to meet up some friends. Hmm I have one prob though, **** was so fast I didn't even get her freakin name through all this or forgot it LOL.
 

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CarlitosWay said:
the date I originally went out on was meh, Went out with two girls both real nice bodies, one I "guess" had a bf (she locked herself away in the bahtroom the whole night wtf?) other has a busted up face so Carlito=pass. Even though she was very attracted to me.

so to my example of sexual kino for you lads, last night I was walking the strip downtown over here after that date. See a hot broad+average chic on a bench, another guy was gaming them. Ugh I look back and I kind of **** blocked a little but I came in and winged him a bit and vice versa. Swear he could be frequenting a forum like this, any PUA's named LUCAS here who met a Carlito recently? lol Anyways, I bs with hot broad, she immediately tells me how "sexy" I am...yadda whatever, it's her bday, I motion for a hug before I leave, lots of real good eye contact (gorgeous eyes she had BTW) I tell her "I could just freakin' kiss you right now" *as I caress the back of her head and neck* *she is stunned and doesn't move at all*

I move in for a kiss than just stop suddenly and say "yet I won't" (just messing with her a bit, trying some new stuff) she likes "I just met you and don't even know you!!" *I laugh, knowing she wanted it just as bad* "What I'm a man who lives with no regrets and enjoys taking risks!" She's very much into me now more than ever or she could have walked away at any sec but she didn't.....next thing you know we have literally like 3-4 of her guy friends+others glued to some windows of the lounge we were in front of just gawking like seriously wtf!!@ !

I hand her my phone and say "Put in your number" she obliges of course :) and we go separate ways as I had to meet up some friends. Hmm I have one prob though, **** was so fast I didn't even get her freakin name through all this or forgot it LOL.
Dam, haha; that is funny yet smooth. I can't say many guys can pull that off. Looks like you really have firm internal game on b/c I see, without it, there's no way you could have done that mega-balls move. Congrats and pray me to have the balls and confidence.
 

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Innuendo is always good. Learn how to make an innuendo. If she mentions that she likes, for example, one of those large park fountains that cities sometimes have, say that you can't hang out around it because it looks so phallic. If she mentions, say, the walls in her apartment, ask her how many things she's tried pinning up on them. If she mentions trees, say you can't believe that they stay outside naked all winter and still have baby trees.

Of course, eye contact is 100000% more effective when it comes to sexuality. A well-placed glance, combined with a small smile, has won many girls over right away for me.

Imagine the look you'd give a girl if you were thinking in your brain "Don't act like you're all that - I've seen your sex tape, after all." It's like a smug look, with a kind of playfulness. This will beat out conversation every time.
 
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