"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to be more "fun"...

Jon55

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I understand the reasons behind why being a "fun" guy is important. Personality wise, I think I totally fit the bill of being a "fun" guy. But in a relationship, I sometimes have trouble doing "fun" things. I mean sure if I were loaded with $$$ I'd be taking her to amusements parks, concerts, sky diving, etc., but being a college student...I'm not loaded. I guess I'm just looking for ways to keep her excited (with whatever activity we're doing together). Thank you in advance!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Jon55 said:
I understand the reasons behind why being a "fun" guy is important. Personality wise, I think I totally fit the bill of being a "fun" guy. But in a relationship, I sometimes have trouble doing "fun" things. I mean sure if I were loaded with $$$ I'd be taking her to amusements parks, concerts, sky diving, etc., but being a college student...I'm not loaded. I guess I'm just looking for ways to keep her excited (with whatever activity we're doing together). Thank you in advance!
Take her to a bar, a few drinks will make anything fun for her.
 

mtlwlu

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Being in university myself, I find that good date ideas are posted all over the school, usually my university has lives bands at the campus bar or comedy nights theres always something cheap or free going on at the school, keep your eyes posted for upcoming events. Even just tossing a ball or frisbee around can be "fun"
 
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