"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to be center of attention?

SamMalone

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How is one able to become the center of attention in the room when walking in without talking too much/being so loud it looks insecure?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maximus Rex

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Why do you need to be the center of attention. You only need to hold the attention of the female your trying to holla at. Who cares if anybody else notices you. As a matter of fact, it's better if they don't.
 

snobby

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If you want to be the centre of attention for women, then get that thought out of your mind.

Women are attracted for guys who don't care what others think of them and are confident with what they do...they don't give a s**t in the world. If you try to be the centre of attention, then she WILL notice. Women have a gift at these things - detecting insecurity and when guys try to grab all the attention. Be cool, and if you are lucky, a woman might notice you. But if you want her to notice you, how about you approach her.
 
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