"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to avoid onetis?

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As I posted earlier, I have now slept with 21 girls but every time I seem to get attach to them for some reason. For instance, last night I kept calling my latest chick to see if she wanted to xxxx. She did not pick up the phone. I read a message she sent to her friend on myspace and it said that I was a good xxxx. So I am thinking: what is the problem then? Why does she not answer if she thinks I am a good xxxx? I have no feelings for this girl or any of the previous girls. Meaning that I do not want them to be my wife or serious girlfriend. My problem is that I get attached to them somehow. How can I avoid this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What you describe doesn't only just seem to be oneitis, but an obsession with the fact that you need someone.

You have to ask yourself, do you really need someone?

How old are you?

If you're under 30 then just enjoy your glory days.

Your mind telling you you need someone is just your mind playing games with you. Maybe you already had a past relationship and are itching for another? If so, not healthy.

It doesn't matter how many girls you've banged.. if you crave a relationship then you are in a lose lose situation. My theory has always been that relationships only work when the woman wants it more so than the man. Not to sound sexist, but it just seems to go that way.

As men we look out for our own. If you crave a relationship more than your woman, then you are the only one in the position to get hurt in the end. More over, chances are this relationship will not last because after all she will get bored with the fact that you want her more so than she wants you.

As far as this girl who is your Fbuddy, treat her so. You'll notice that the less you make attempts to contact these women, the more they will want to be around. Eventually you'll get to the point where you won't NEED to call bootycalls because you'll have so many women hooked to your leash.

Right now the fire is burning steadily with this chick. Don't put it out by smothering what is a good thing.
 
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Stop Actin' Like A Chik. Get A Hold Of Your Balls Man. I Understand Where Your Comin From Tho. Its Natural From Time To Time For That Soft Female Like Tendency To Try To Come Out. I Dont Kno Why Maybe Because We Come Out Of A Woman But Stop It! When I See That Im Losin My Grip On The Situation, Feelin Needy Growin Emotional, I Move On And Bang Tha Next Broad. Not On Some Revenge Type Sh!t But On Some Regaining Self Control Type Sh!t. Always Hold The Control Card On Every Situation
 
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