"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to ask a girl to be your "valentine"?

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toddC

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I've never had a GF for valentines day and this year is no diffrent :(, however I'm thinking about asking a girl to be my valentine.

Why I don't think its a great idea:
I just think it is kinda weird to ask a girl I've never hooked up with to be my valentine.

Why I'm thinkin about it:

I Hung out with this girl on this past friday night and I was gaming her but didn't get anything (if you read my last post). Now yesterday in school her best friend text messaged me about how she can't stop talking about me and how shes interested in me and shyt. So I've been textin her and I just think that it would be cute if I asked her.

So 2 questions for you guys...
A) Should I ask her?
B) If yes, how can I ask her without it seeming....weird?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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DJ4Real

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Text her with a "I know that you want to be my Valentine, but how do I know that it's going to be worth it with you?"

And if you are right, and she is interested in you and she gives you a flirtatious reason as to why she is "qualified to be your Valentine."

Don't text her back that day.....wait one day.

And then Text her with a "Congratulations! You're the lucky person to be my Valentine this year. I like chocolate (the expensive kind).....and be sure to have a card or two ready."

But if she plays hard to get or says "no"

Text her back on the same day with, "Well, that's too bad for you. You're grandly missing out on a great thing. But it's cool with me, I've got another that has always wanted this special moment. Later!"

Good Luck:cool:
 
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The first question that you should really ask yourself is if you are actually truly attracted to this girl. Can you see her with you at least three months from now? If the answer is yes, just go do it. If not, don't bother trying to play the girl then ruining your rep among her potentially cute friends.

-Damian
 
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