How to ask a girl out on the phone

[mackdaddy27]

This shyt happened to me twice I think I m doing something wrong..

I call them up, and chat up for just 1-2 minutes, but right before

I ask them out, there is a pause in the conversation and perhaps my words less ...and I say something like "as you know, i am calling to ..."...or I start talking saying something like "basically, the reason for my call ...."

and even before I get those words out "met me for coffee.."

and they hang up the phone, this shyt happened to me twice with 2 HB8.5+

is it just a sign of disinterest or does it just mean that I am not asking them out correctly. ?

...its getting to me when i start losing super hot girls because I may be saying or doing something AFC-ish..seems like they gave me their number because they were interested but I just didn't execute something correctly

some possible changes I thought of, ( perhaps call them up when its freer time e.g. sundays after 9PM)

I think i need to call them up and Just talk to them as much as possible more than 1-2 mins maybe like 10 mins

or

Try and have the first date right there itself when I first met them so theres no dealing with getting the number and calling them later etc

 

[Stéphane]

You could just ask them what there doing today, and if they say they aren't doing much, just be blunt, and say i'm going for coffee you can come if you want if you aren't doing much. This make you sound casual, and like you don't care if they come or not.

 

[trojanman88]

DOn't ask girls out over the phone...

 

[Menage a Mi]

You gotta talk to them longer than 2 minutes if yo want to successfully ask them out. Chat them up for 20 minutes or so and then suggest that you continue the conversation in person.