"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to approach older woman online?

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I'm on a dating site and I must admit I wouldn't mind gettin a MILF or an older chick but I'm wondering what's the best way to approach them/what should I say? I'm early 20's, good looking but I also look pretty young. I haven't gotten any positive responses from any women 30+ and I was wondering if you guys had any tips or tricks on what to say as an opening msg.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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green69 said:
I'm on a dating site and I must admit I wouldn't mind gettin a MILF or an older chick but I'm wondering what's the best way to approach them/what should I say? I'm early 20's, good looking but I also look pretty young. I haven't gotten any positive responses from any women 30+ and I was wondering if you guys had any tips or tricks on what to say as an opening msg.
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Not so sure dude about dating sites.You desire a Milf?? Why??
 
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MILFS can be a lot of fun.

However, you have an uphill battle ahead of you.

I've dated quite a few, and they get peppered with messages from young dudes-even good looking ones, all the time. This is one area where good looks can actually work against you, if that's possible, because they will just think you're bored with your current conquests and looking for
"hit the cycle".

Basically look at the way society views this. I date some younger women, but that's considered relatively normal, as long as the age difference isn't too extreme. But even if it is, most people won't care.

Because it's easy for a woman to get boy toy, it's viewed completely differently. They are seen as craddle robbers, sluts, etc...

The other thing you have going against you is your very young age. If you were say, 30, and trying to date 40, that's a little different.. you very well could be an established adult by them. In your 20s, your going to be seen as young, not established, and immature. In fact, half the girls I have dated that our your age or slightly older, wont even date guys your age for that same reason.

Wish I had better news for you, my friend, but most of them will be very suspicious of your intentions. The girls I have typically talked to tell me the think the younger guys either want to brag about their conquest after the fact, or think the older girls can "teach" them something.

In any case, they are still women, and most of the same rules apply. You'll just have to play the percentages. It's definitely possible to do, so Happy MILF Hunting.
 
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