"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to approach girls at college

GeoMan

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There so many hot girls that sit by themselves but I can't seem to build up the courage to approach:(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dustmuffin

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Just do it. You will feel awkward at first but with practice your confidence will grow. Read the DJ bible section on approach. Remember rejection is better than regret. You can do it.
 

RangerMIke

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If you can't approach girls in college you do have a problem. It will NEVER be easier. Dustmuffin is right just do it, talk about the first thing that pops in your head, keep doing this until you really don't care anymore.
 
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