Story so far...
1. Met HB8 3yrs ago, went out a few times, held hands, lips touched for a long time but never really let me kiss her.
2. I cooled it off, stayed my distance; We bumped into each other over the last 3 yrs (same social circles), maybe went out a few times as friends and chatted on the phone now and then.
3. Fast forward to recent few months: Went out as friends but started flirting again; later more flirting by phone/txt...more C&F
4. She came to my party...all the guys trying it...I just busy and keeping distance and chatting to most people. Near the end of night, I chat to her, grab her and take her to dancefloor. I'm slow dancing her, doing lots of Kino. At end of night we're in a group chatting, I chat to a few other guests and get a random girls no. infont of her. At end of night I go home with friends she goes with hers
5. Week later we go for Dinner & Cinema. She's Q's me about realtionships and tells me loads of persoanal stuff about herself. Walking to the Cinema I turn the Kino up and in the Cinema I'm holding hands, messing around and having a good time. End of night dropped her to her car (NB: She lives far so most of the time have got her to meet me half way. Reason also; All interested males have always picked her up from her house and she's used to this. So in the beginning I made the point to her that I'm not one of those guys and if we're gonna meet it will have to be half-way)...and that's been the case since.
6. Txt's me nxt day saying she's confused. Then rings me nxt day saying she doesn't normally hold hands with friends and am I like that with all my female friends; I say no worries if she doesn't like it. But she says she likes me and wants to get to know me slowly. I'm C&F and I say I know she likes me...I know she's thinking Im quite confident and big headed at this point in time but not arrogant in a bad way.
7. So plan to meet up; but a month passes as we've both been busy. Eventually we meet up; suppoosed to go to dinner but convince her to cook dinner for me at her place. Get there she's looking casual but hot ; nice tight vest!.....Messing around and joking with her; loads of C&F...
8. Finish dinner: I'm on one sofa and she's on the other. After an hour of chit-chat I get on her sofa and sit down; slowly turn the kino-up; she's cool with it. Holding hands; arm arond her; lying down; kising on cheek; smellin her neck. But she's holding back....So slow down and change the pacew a bit more chatting.
9. Through the conversation she tells me she's not sure about me; I make her feel vulnerable or out of control when she's with me; her usual confident persona is down and what I see is a cute little girl who is not like the confident HB8 i'm used to....suprising. Anyway out the blue she says she need the lamp shade in her bedroom fixed...I'm thinking that's a green light....So get to bed room, fumble around with shade, she comes to bed room, she starts showing me little oranments here and there; I'm holding her hand standing up, have my hands round her; kissing her on the neck; then she takes my hand and leads me back to the living rm where we lie on the sofa again.
10. Fall asleep on the sofa, arm in arm; wake up about 4am. I say I'm gonna go home as I got loads work to do in the morning. She says I can stay, I say no, she says I can stay again, I say no and leave and make my way home....I WAS THINKING MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE STAYED THIS TIME?
11. Rang her Wed (had met with her Monday Night) ....She say's if she gets into a realtionship she wants all or nothing. Also I was still being quite persistent and she thought we were gonna take things slowly?....so she expected me to ring her on the Tues. I said I like her but that's the way I am, laidback....Spoken a few times since but haven't got together.
So my question: I know she likes me and i feel she wants to be with me. But what is she playing at? should I change my style and be more of the way she wants me to be? Or should I just be the way i have been with her.
Nxt date I was planning was a day ot at a theme park to make it really fun?
Thanks...guys
1. Met HB8 3yrs ago, went out a few times, held hands, lips touched for a long time but never really let me kiss her.
2. I cooled it off, stayed my distance; We bumped into each other over the last 3 yrs (same social circles), maybe went out a few times as friends and chatted on the phone now and then.
3. Fast forward to recent few months: Went out as friends but started flirting again; later more flirting by phone/txt...more C&F
4. She came to my party...all the guys trying it...I just busy and keeping distance and chatting to most people. Near the end of night, I chat to her, grab her and take her to dancefloor. I'm slow dancing her, doing lots of Kino. At end of night we're in a group chatting, I chat to a few other guests and get a random girls no. infont of her. At end of night I go home with friends she goes with hers
5. Week later we go for Dinner & Cinema. She's Q's me about realtionships and tells me loads of persoanal stuff about herself. Walking to the Cinema I turn the Kino up and in the Cinema I'm holding hands, messing around and having a good time. End of night dropped her to her car (NB: She lives far so most of the time have got her to meet me half way. Reason also; All interested males have always picked her up from her house and she's used to this. So in the beginning I made the point to her that I'm not one of those guys and if we're gonna meet it will have to be half-way)...and that's been the case since.
6. Txt's me nxt day saying she's confused. Then rings me nxt day saying she doesn't normally hold hands with friends and am I like that with all my female friends; I say no worries if she doesn't like it. But she says she likes me and wants to get to know me slowly. I'm C&F and I say I know she likes me...I know she's thinking Im quite confident and big headed at this point in time but not arrogant in a bad way.
7. So plan to meet up; but a month passes as we've both been busy. Eventually we meet up; suppoosed to go to dinner but convince her to cook dinner for me at her place. Get there she's looking casual but hot ; nice tight vest!.....Messing around and joking with her; loads of C&F...
8. Finish dinner: I'm on one sofa and she's on the other. After an hour of chit-chat I get on her sofa and sit down; slowly turn the kino-up; she's cool with it. Holding hands; arm arond her; lying down; kising on cheek; smellin her neck. But she's holding back....So slow down and change the pacew a bit more chatting.
9. Through the conversation she tells me she's not sure about me; I make her feel vulnerable or out of control when she's with me; her usual confident persona is down and what I see is a cute little girl who is not like the confident HB8 i'm used to....suprising. Anyway out the blue she says she need the lamp shade in her bedroom fixed...I'm thinking that's a green light....So get to bed room, fumble around with shade, she comes to bed room, she starts showing me little oranments here and there; I'm holding her hand standing up, have my hands round her; kissing her on the neck; then she takes my hand and leads me back to the living rm where we lie on the sofa again.
10. Fall asleep on the sofa, arm in arm; wake up about 4am. I say I'm gonna go home as I got loads work to do in the morning. She says I can stay, I say no, she says I can stay again, I say no and leave and make my way home....I WAS THINKING MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE STAYED THIS TIME?
11. Rang her Wed (had met with her Monday Night) ....She say's if she gets into a realtionship she wants all or nothing. Also I was still being quite persistent and she thought we were gonna take things slowly?....so she expected me to ring her on the Tues. I said I like her but that's the way I am, laidback....Spoken a few times since but haven't got together.
So my question: I know she likes me and i feel she wants to be with me. But what is she playing at? should I change my style and be more of the way she wants me to be? Or should I just be the way i have been with her.
Nxt date I was planning was a day ot at a theme park to make it really fun?
Thanks...guys
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