"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How should I move forward in this relationship?

Tom Juan

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So there's this cute girl I'm seeing. We talk alot. I hug her and put my hands on her ass and she giggles. How should I move forward in this relationship?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mods please ban Tom Juan. He's an obvious troll looking to clutter our boards
 

skip2mylou781

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his PINGING post was awesome though.....but all his others make him seem useless

if u want ADVICE, then make ur questions a lil more detailed....wtf kinda question is it to ask "im seeing this girl, we touch, wat should i do?"

WTF DO U THINK U SHOULD DO?

kiss - get naked - ****

i cant believe u even dared, as a man, to ask that questioN!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tom Juan

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I'm getting mixed reactions here.
 

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yoo

pull ur cak out infront of her and tell her to suck ti
 
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