"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How should i go about this approach

Chronix

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Ok, Im not sure how I should approach this one chick, heres the scenario.

About two weeks before I moved from SB to MH, I was down in MH for the weekend. There was a party that I went to. I met this one hb6. When i first approached her at the party I used the approach Ive been using and its working well. Said hey, she replied, Asked for her name , went for a handshake when I heard her start to say hers, someone stepped in the way and then I noticed she put her hand over the arms of the person that stepped in the middle to shake my hand (She didnt see my handshake attempt), at this point Im thinkin shes wanting to hit on me, well anyways that night we had alot of light kino going and I gave her some neg hits, we got along really good.

Now I moved to MH's school. Been here for a week have no classes with her but see her every now and then. How should I go about approaching her. Ive been kind of confused about this since i dont want to reintroduce using the same approach.

-ChroN
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mission

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Just stop her and say, "hey! how are you?"

--Mission
 

Chronix

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Ok, that sounds kinda good, she walks with one of my best friends to one of his classes. Ive tried using him as a wingman for her to talk to me, but it hasnt worked that well. Other than her asking me what classes I had. I think she might be slowly losing interest thats why I want to make an approach soon. Ive been doing more sarging in this past week I moved here than I have in the past three months. I feel like Im getting somewhere and im becoming a bit more confortable with cold approaching, although I have ran into a few ****blocks around the finer chicks.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Yes, greet her. Keep the conversation short and interesting, then go to class. Don't talk to her EVERY time you see her, just often enough to build up the interest again, and then take her out.
 

08aisaac

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She's a 6? That doesn't sound too hard, just use some basic ****. Skilla Staz has a good idea.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Went smooth.

Me : Hey hb6
Her : Hey, im going to my locker
We both walk to her locker
Me : So how have you been
Her : Good (And she said something I dont remember too)
Me : So what class are you going too?
Her : Mr. S
Me : Oh really I just came from there
Her : What are we doing?
Me : Watching a movie
Her : Im getting tired of that class
Me : Me too well we gotta get to class so Il talk to you later
Her : Bye

Didnt get no kino. I didnt see her where i normally do she was farther in hall, I was planning on stopping her by sticking my arm out in front of her and bringing her in towards me while saying hey, how have you been.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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if she is a 6, she is not a HB.
Find a spot where she is alone, then go and work your magic.
 

Chronix

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Zerotwoonenine, I never see her alone, I dont have any classes with her and rarely see her in the halls. When homeboy throws another party Im sure thatl be a good time to get some rapport.
 
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