"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How often do you get aproached?

d9930380

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Archaxis - it's probably the same reason REALLY hot girls say they don't get aproached, you look unattainable.

I bet as soon as you even show the girl a little bit of interest she completely is hanging on your every word ;-)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JezDuffield

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I have never been cold approached by a girl or a lady in my life, they seem to be useless when it comes to introducing themselves to even the hunkiest of the guys that they see.

I am reasonably good looking 7 or 8 out of 10 as far as guys go, but everytime a girl or lady is attracted to me they either look at me and smile or raise their eyebrows or twirl their hair or tell somebody else that I know that they have got a crush on me, but they never walk straight up to me to tell me this.

If any girl or lady who was a 7 or 8 out of 10 hot babe could learn to approach the guys whom they desired then they would have such a huge advantage over the 9 and 10 out of 10 hot babes that never do it because in reality even the most outgoing and confident of guys would rather just be able to sit at the bar relax and be cold approached and picked up by a pretty girl as we are all lazy I think.

I am fortunate that no unattractive girls or ladies ever seem to develop a crush on me, it is only ever the prettier 7 to 10 Hot Babes that seem to show any real interest in me at all, but obviously this is so much better than it would be if it was the other way around. :D
 
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