Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How much weight loss from cutting?

Iceberg

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I'm 167 pounds, but I've gained about 20 pounds since starting a bulking program last year. I'm 5'11" and I'd like for my abs to show more, but I don't want to lose all the weight I've gained over the past year.

If I started cutting, by Diesel's cutting guide, would I lose fat and gain muscle, thus maintaining my weight or would I lose fat and lose weight which could turn me back into my former scrawny self?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Big N

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When you cut you wont gain muscle. Meaning you will lose a lot of fat and a little bit of muscle. The more strictly you follow the cutting guide, the better the chances that the weight you lose is fat.
 
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