"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How much time/money for dating/relationships?

Heretolearn

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Ok, so 31 and am wondering how others manage their lives.

Between my work and keeping fit, I do not have much time left. Sure, I keep Fri/Sat nights free yet I am so exhausted from the week, I usually just chill with a movie or go to bed early (yeah, living on the edge ha).

So how do others do it?

I spent most of my younger life in relationships, so I am enjoying being single and improving myself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where do you live? Metro city or neck of the woods?
 

Heretolearn

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metro city for the most isolated city in the world supposedly i.e still a country town mentality
 
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