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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How much time do you give a girl?

lamobatsman

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general question but i think its quite a good one.

whats the time frame a guy should give a girl in regards to meeting up for a date/meet up?

i think 4 weeks tops from chatting to meeting. anymore i think NEXT
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SamTheHobit

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Everyone has there own time frame, but 4 weeks sound pretty reasonable.
 

The Bat

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Depends on how busy both you and her are. I'm particularly busy so I can't find time for 6-8 weeks to meet up a new woman. This is a combination of my priorities for work, family, friends, and other women.

Just keep that in mind when you're thinking of time frames and if a woman extends a meet up for quite some time.
 
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