how much or how badly does inexperience affect you?

[OddManOut85]

ive been doing some thinking,and i think i have narrowed down my problems to mostly that,inexperience,or just not being very good with women.ive realized that women tend to go for the more experienced guys.it just seems like everyone else is more experienced than me in that dept.i can just tell.i think this what i meant to say in previous posts.i think its on account of not trying,and not being more confident etc.i mean,how much does it affect you? im not totally inexperienced,ive slept with two girls to date.but ive never had any sort of ltr.and that bothers me.this is a hump i still havent managed to get over.it seems like everyone else has done this,yet i still have yet too.does this sort of thing matter to girls? i mean,does inexperience say "low status loser"? if she really likes you,does it matter? i mean,i know guys uglier than me,and im not saying im "such a studly man",that well,have pulled chicks.does it have to do with status? attitude? it just seems like i havent taken advantage of opportunities.

 

[oakraiderz2]

If you dont wanna be in a ltr then dont. Im sure you have a reason as to why you havent. Either way, if someone asks tell them you havent found the right person or some crap. Ive had 4 or 5 opportunities to sleep with girls and i i didnt take advantage of the chances. Do what you have to do for a peace of mind, mental ejaculation as i call it.

 

[Cableguy]

Some guys are naturals with the ladies and some aren't. The good news is you can greatly improve your luck with the ladies if you really want to. Most of the guys I know who can't pull ***** fail in that dept because they don't try. Or, they use flawed AFC logic because they think it's what they should do.

You can learn alot from this site but ultimately you have to APPLY what you learn by getting out there and getting some experience. Approaching women might terrify you now but after you do it enough times it seems like second nature. You may have to work at that more or less than someone else would. If you're game is tight, women won't give a crap how much experience you have because you won't be displaying signs of inexperience.

Confidence is a powerful thing. Women can smell it and they like it. You'll gain alot of confidence just by engaging chicks and not having them run away. I've found that most women love to talk, it's when a guy comes up all nervous spitting out lines that turns them off. At least, that's what I did. I didn't focus on getting dates at first, I just simply wanted to be confident enough to talk to women and have interesting conversations with them. I didn't worry about closing just talking. As you get comfortable doing that, you will find it easier to apply the other principles taught on this site.