how much effort it took to hook up is the easiest way of measuring sluttyness

[devilkingx2]

see title^

it may seem obvious as hell, but keep in mind the guys who hook up with a chick "she's not a slut, I'm just THAT good" no matter what the circumstance, even if that means within a half hour of meeting her in the public bathroom of a fast food joint.

you... probably aren't THAT good.

just keep in mind that she's done this exact thing just as easily with every other guy she's ever been with

keep in mind that this doesn't work for AFCs because it takes herculean effort to get ANY girl to sleep with them, slut or nun.

it also works as a consolation prize for the guys who have to wait for sex from their girl of choice. atleast you know you're not settling for a former/current c*** carousel rider.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Totally agreed.

 

[BeDJ]

Why should I have to pay when others have ridden for free?

 

[LorenzoVonM]

So if a girl makes you wait 5 dinner dates before sex she is less of a slut?

That same girl could have been double teamed in a bathroom on vacation at some club.

She just sees you as a BF/provider. This happens all the time, AND YOU WILL NEVER KNOW, so stop worrying about it.

Or is ignorance is bliss your thoughts on this situation?

 

[devilkingx2]

Why should I have to pay when others have ridden for free?

the idea is that if you're paying, everyone else paid, and if you're not paying don't assume anyone else put any more work into this girl than you did

it breaks down if you're an AFC though

So if a girl makes you wait 5 dinner dates before sex she is less of a slut?

That same girl could have been double teamed in a bathroom on vacation at some club.

She just sees you as a BF/provider. This happens all the time, AND YOU WILL NEVER KNOW, so stop worrying about it.

Or is ignorance is bliss your thoughts on this situation?

don't tell me you've never seen a post where someone is convinced the girl they just went all the way with on the first night they met is a perfectly chaste good girl who was acting out of character?

this post is for those people.

 

[Zarky]

The only answer is: make sure chicks bang you on the first date. That way you know -- even if they're sluts -- they're at least as slutty with you as they have been with all the other guys.

 

[zinc4]

i slightly disagree...not every girl that has sex first night is a slut...in general it's true of course...but not always.....also if she aint at least hardcore making out first night than i am not wasting anymore time...

 

[Stagger Lee]

Every girl that fvcks on the first date is most likely a slvt.

But not every girl that makes you wait is not a slvt. She could be slvtting it up with other guys in the meantime.

I wouldn't mind waiting two dates or more if the girl was making it easy and clear that she was interested in me and not seeing other guys AND once we had sex, a meaningful LTR began.

Waiting several dates and having to chase or impress a girl for multiple dates just for a ONS, or worse for no sex is not something I want to do.

 

[floydb25]

RE: AFC's... Not necessarily. They might be pedestalizing women, be afraid of *****, trying to go the relationship route, etc. Used to do all 3 - AS bishes were trying to bang right away. Just made everything more complicated for myself.

If a chick finds you "lusty" - she's gonna want to bang right away. Doesn't matter if she has a BF or hates your guts, either.

 

[instantnoodles]

People have different perspectives on WHO is a slvt and what MAKES her a slvt.


Just use your own judgment. There is no wrong or right, guys.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Disagree.

Every woman is a slut for Channing Tatum. Every woman is a prude for the smelly homeless guy panhandling on the street corner.

Nuff said. What women are depends on what you offer them and how much they want it.

The true definition of a slut IMO is a woman who doesn't charge for sex. In other words.. she doesn't require the man to have any value. He just has to be around when she is "horny". That is a slut. :yes:

 

[Mr Wright]

A slvt is just a girl who is banging more guys than you want her to. Guys who are totally obsessed with one girl and hear she has a FB or something, will call her a slvt even if its the only guy shes banged in the last 5 years. It's relative and not worth worrying about.

 

[Stagger Lee]

Disagree.

Every woman is a slut for Channing Tatum. Every woman is a prude for the smelly homeless guy panhandling on the street corner.



Nuff said. What women are depends on what you offer them and how much they want it.

Very often the case but even if a woman sleeps with Channing Tatum right away and easily, she's still a slvt although maybe a higher level. The reasoning is because that girl could get a guy for a relationship as good looking and personable or more than Channning Tatum who is financially decently well off if not as wealthy and famous. Also she would likely sleep with other male celebrities.

The true definition of a slut IMO is a woman who doesn't charge for sex. In other words.. she doesn't require the man to have any value. He just has to be around when she is "horny". That is a slut. :yes:

But is there ever really any such woman? Just about all women reject many men. They all require a man to at least have equal and usually greater appearance, looks and personality value than she does. Women only sleep with the man they deem most attractive out all the ones available to her. None of that makes them not a slvt.

My definition of a slvt is a girl who doesn't pick a BF out of her many obvious options of BFs and instead just quickly picks the most attractive guy to her to have sex with. Super-hypergamy=slvt.

Others might say well it depends on how often and how long she does casual sex. And I'd say that is just the matter of degree of a slvt. There's different degrees of slvt. Most girls are at least minor slvts at times but can still be of somewhat quality and usually are in a relationship.

 

[PlayHer Man]

My definition of a slvt is a girl who doesn't pick a BF out of her many obvious options of BFs and instead just quickly picks the most attractive guy to her to have sex with. Super-hypergamy=slvt.

Have to agree.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

We have all heard it, woman think with emotions. If she's letting you hit it without an emotional connection than YES she's a slvt. Low self esteem insecure woman will let you hit it fast. IME

We have all met many slvts that say: "I don't kiss on the first date!"

Biggest bullsh*t line of all time!

Woman are just as slvtty/horny as men are, get over it.