how much attention should you be giving while you wait?

[big weezy]

if a girl has a long term bf and seems very happy in the relationship, how much attention should you be giving to her to keep you in her thoughts for when they do break up you can sweep in and take advantage?

im not saying nexting cos she has a bf or cos u dont have plates just keep her on the backburner.. how much contact should there be between you 2 if say it may take a year or something?

i dont want to be an orbiter, so im wary about giving too much attention, neither do i want to be her BFF.. is talking daily on whatsapp too much or should it be limited to like little IM convo's twice a week max with her always initiating?

i know that's basically just giving her attention and validation but how much is too much?

 

[j0504s]

if a girl has a long term bf and seems very happy in the relationship, how much attention should you be giving to her to keep you in her thoughts for when they do break up you can sweep in and take advantage?

im not saying nexting cos she has a bf or cos u dont have plates just keep her on the backburner.. how much contact should there be between you 2 if say it may take a year or something?

i dont want to be an orbiter, so im wary about giving too much attention, neither do i want to be her BFF.. is talking daily on whatsapp too much or should it be limited to like little IM convo's twice a week max with her always initiating?

i know that's basically just giving her attention and validation but how much is too much?

I wouldnt go out of your way to do it...and ALWAYS be sexual, otherwise she will never think of you in that light

 

[old_skoolr]

Tallking everyday is wayy too much, keep going like that and you'll end up being the gay friend she hangs out with lol

I have a few girls who are friends who have bf, though i do try and keep in contact with them for various reasons

a) there hot and if they break up i want in
b) hot girls have hot friends
c) Im a nice person

yet some girls i'll see once or twice a month, others talk on fb or text monthly, just depends how often you see her normally

 

[Down Low]

if a girl has a long term bf and seems very happy in the relationship, how much attention should you be giving to her to keep you in her thoughts for when they do break up you can sweep in and take advantage?

Zero.

At the very least, you should realize that any woman who keeps her options open -- will be exactly the same with you. All you wind up being is an enabler of some slvt's abusive behavior toward all men.

Or . . . you will lose respect for yourself by playing the romantic clown to a total stranger who sees you as some stalking creep whose feelings, finances, and very liberty are expendable.

She's happy in her relationship? Why would you want to break up a happy couple? Because you want to pump 'n dump her. You want to destroy her happiness so that you can sexually abuse then neglect her. Even if you didn't start out with that in mind, it has to end up like that. She will always blame you for the breakup -- no matter why it actually happens -- because you wanted the breakup. Chicks think with their emotions, not with reason.

The fantasy of seducing a married woman is, of course, a homosexual urge to get access to the husband's semen, it's motivated by feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem to prove that you, not he, is the big powerful man who can dominate some inconsequential object that you two are fighting over, it's the classic Superman fantasy of rescuing a damsel in distress from a rapist and, after enjoying watching her being raped over and over, expecting her to be grateful for you saving her, it's the Captain Save-A-H0 fantasy of rescuing a prostitute, because you have such low self-esteem that you think you're not worth anything better, and so on ad nauseum.

You could get four or five mediocre hookups from any woman. What's so special about that one that you have to plan and scheme and work at it and lie in wait and masturbate all over the place about it?

 

[Bafflegabs]

...ALWAYS be sexual, otherwise she will never think of you in that light

Who are we? :cheer::cheer: GIRLS!
What do we want? :cheer::cheer: A sweet and cute guy who treats us like a woman and is also a nice guy!
But who do we date? :cheer::cheer: JERKS!
Where do we leave the good guys?! :cheer::cheer: THE FRIENDZONE! :cheer::cheer:

 

[zinc4]

Seriously...this is pure AFC behavior...either you swoop in and bang her quickly or you don't waste your time with her...and chatting every day...that is the definition of orbiter..billions of women in the world and you want to waste time and energy with one who has a serious BF...like i said bang her or leave her alone...

And the whole thing about good guys getting stuck in friend zone is BS....pussies (manipulative fake nice guys) or either guys who are very unattractive in general get stuck in the friendzone.....if you aren't a ***** you will never even give a girl the chance to friendzone you because you either be screwing her or decide not to waste your time with her.....

 

[Uncharted]

No attention because she doesn't deserve any. If she starts asking where you are or what you're doing just say you're busy. If she asks you to hang out, flip that sh!t into a "date" scenario (ie drinks instead of lunch) and go balls out sexual on her. If she resists, then just tell her to call you when she breaks up with her BF. She'll break up at some point, and she might even call you. Until then, spin more plates.