"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How many times a week should you contact a girl you're pursuing?

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lazikia

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I know there's no exact number, but I'm just curious as to how much is too much and how little is too little.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Diaforetikos

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After initial contact, you wanna get the date ASAP as not to lose interest. But you also do wanna seem desperate. I usually wait maybe a day or two.

To be honest though, your putting too much on it. It's not that serious.
 
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Lexington

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Only contact to setup a meeting. If she declines your invitation, offer one more time. If she declines again, ask her to give you a call. If she doesn't call, there is no interest. Next.
 
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