"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many of you wear a beard or mustache?

Dark Chivalry

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I know most girls say they want a clean shaven man, but since I grew my beard out last year I've been making a more mature impression at work. The higher ups treat me differently than other guys my age. When it comes to women, I think it makes me look more masculine, yet also more stable. Women seem to trust me more. My sister said it gave me an old fashioned, distinguished look.

Do you wear a beard? How has it affected your first impression?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Eccentric

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My beard grows really fast. I usually let it go to a 5 o'clock shadow for a day or 2 then shave it before it becomes thick and irritable. I definitely look older for those days, but it's usually not worth it.
 

STR8UP

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I'm just plain lazy and avoid shaving as much as possible. sometimes I will go a week without shaving.

As for women, usually they will say something like "what's up with the stubble?" or something of the sort. Just when I'm thinking they aren't diggin' it, they say "I kind of like it". So I guess it works for me.
 

Dark Chivalry

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STR8UP said:
As for women, usually they will say something like "what's up with the stubble?" or something of the sort. Just when I'm thinking they aren't diggin' it, they say "I kind of like it".
Women don't know what they want anyway.

I look like a cad/jerk without it and while that gets them moist, it also requires more game to get them to trust me.
 

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Best beard is the frat boy beard. Don't let it grow past 2 days without trimming it, shave upper cheeks and neck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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