"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many of you still lose control?

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I was reading that old thread here: https://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000543.html

Pretty funny how we lose control. But actually what struck me in that story is the girl actually asked indiorunner to stop running. He says "She wanted me to stop running and I did, for a while.", then he got the door.

This is such a big red flag. If a woman is not pushing us to become better and to do what we like, she's for the dumpster.

That's the same reason why neo-feminist nowadays want to close all the men's groups and kill fraternities. They want to close all the options and opportunities men have to express themselves without a feminized censor around. They want to control and isolate us.

Pretty hard to rebuild fraternities considering most men are blue pilled feminist now. Do you still have a group of buddies intact?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lumix said:
I was reading that old thread here: https://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000543.html

Pretty funny how we lose control. But actually what struck me in that story is the girl actually asked indiorunner to stop running. He says "She wanted me to stop running and I did, for a while.", then he got the door.

This is such a big red flag. If a woman is not pushing us to become better and to do what we like, she's for the dumpster.

That's the same reason why neo-feminist nowadays want to close all the men's groups and kill fraternities. They want to close all the options and opportunities men have to express themselves without a feminized censor around. They want to control and isolate us.

Pretty hard to rebuild fraternities considering most men are blue pilled feminist now. Do you still have a group of buddies intact?
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I don't really care if a lady stays, prays as long as she lays. I no longer care enough to lose control. Here's what I want and need. If you can provide it, great, if not, you will be missed. The current GF is not exercising as much as I prefer. She knows it so now she walks and hour or so a night. Not the greatest, but due to the lock down, I guess it will do for now. It's concerning to me to say the least. It takes time to train a female. It's such a pain to have to start all over again. These millennials...
 
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