how many guys actually have fun at bars/clubs?

[FBA808]

when you're out at a bar or a club, do you ever notice how many of the guys there are actually enjoying themselves?

to me, it seems like maybe only 10% or so

i see a lot of guys just standing by the wall, sipping a drink, not really talking to anyone they don't already know, not dancing, certainly not hooking up with any girls

but when i ask them, they say they had a fun time

maybe it's just expectations, but if i don't at least meet a girl and flirt or dance i can't have fun, not saying i have to get laid every night but i need to at least meet and flirt to have fun

i dont know, what do you think?

 

[Alphamale1821]

Every where i go i try to have fun because thats just my out look on life. I gurantee you most of the guys who go to the club with "I'M GOING TO GET LAID TONIGHT" more often then not don't get laid. As opposed to the guy who goes to the club to have a good fun time who usually goes home with some sort of action. Because the guy who has the mindset of having fun gets the girl because one he knows he's fun and two he knows that girls love to be around fun people. With that being said he doesn't have to look for the pvssy the pvssy comes to him, by him having fun. Unlike the creepy dude on the side of a wall who randomly comes out of a corner with a drink in his hand and approaches some chick.

 

[Bonhomme]

I usually have a jolly good time.

Of course, I usually go when there's at least one band I want to check out playing, it's a good dance night, or some of my droogs are hanging out.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

oh man clubs are huge fun for me. But I dont go there to p/up. Heck I dont go anywhere to p/up it just happens. However I got to trance clubs, you just gotta go around showing your having a good time, smile, and you'll get girls wanting to dance with you. Happened last time, I went to a club solo, just was dancing by myself giving random hi fives to people, not in a goofy way. Some girl grabbed me by the arm and started dancing with me, I danced with her for a long ass time, grinding and some regular trance dancing. IK sat down with her and her friends made her laugh,etc. But i wasnt all to attraced to her, even though she was with me the entire night. I got her # and its been a week now and still havent called. She was like a 6.5/10 maybe a 7 but she lives far away maybe ill call her soon.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

There's guy's at clubs? Hadn't noticed.

 

[lebRambo]

clubs can be a confronting environment for a lot of guys. It really depends on my mood, most of the time I enjoy myself no matter what happens, but sometimes I'm kinda down on something and don't enjoy it that much.

 

[Fluffy]

I generally get intimidated by the guys standing around not doing much, coz it feels like they are uptight and if i do something they may wanna beat my head in.

However, I occasionally open them (not in a gay way) and they turn out to be bigger AFCs than I first would have thought.
If I open dudes alot older than me like late 20s more often than not they will dig my vibes and they will get more into it, possibly intro me to any female friends they have around the traps and best of all buy me drinks.
The drink thing makes me feel like a woman BUT I try to return the favour and they always refuse which is prob a manhood thing.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Sometimes i'm just not feeling it.


I hate being in ghetto spaces so i don't bother just sip my drink and either skate off secretley or just eat the time.