"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many girls do you reckon are on this site?

Point Blank

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And are you a girl? Someone name all the known girls on SoSuave? Discuss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brian20o2

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Docs said:
Go away, you haven't offered any useful words yet.
lol. In case you havn't noticed Docs, 90% of the posters on here havn't. And to answer the original posters Question. I remember about 4-5. Badl lil Pixei, Wildfire, Penkitten, and some angelw/e that came by but doesn't post much. (Forgive me for mispelling names if I did)
 

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DreamyChick is dropping some steamy piles of shít on the main forum. Check out the 7 page thread. So combined with those you just mentioned that's 5. And yes this thread is already crap.
 

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IsiMan, I see you're from Ames. Do you know a Travis or Wendy Pierce? They're a tattooed couple with the guy having some emo glasses and the girl having a just a bunch of tatoos and maybe strawberry colored hair and they're Christians. If you know them let me know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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