I used to think this whole thing was getting better at attracting women, but after leaving 3 months of monk mode I realize that real success is in getting better at rejecting women.
After a painful breakup I spent a ton of time on myself mentally, physically and emotionally. Eventually this stunning girl started hitting on me and pursuing ME. Not the other way around.
There are a few red flags that I picked up on (orbiters, immaturity, lack of own friends, etc). 3 months ago I would have ignored these and let myself fall for her. Now? I’ve totally written her off as any sort of relationship material without any emotional investment.
Who knew that would be the way I’d measure success...
After a painful breakup I spent a ton of time on myself mentally, physically and emotionally. Eventually this stunning girl started hitting on me and pursuing ME. Not the other way around.
There are a few red flags that I picked up on (orbiters, immaturity, lack of own friends, etc). 3 months ago I would have ignored these and let myself fall for her. Now? I’ve totally written her off as any sort of relationship material without any emotional investment.
Who knew that would be the way I’d measure success...