"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJx420

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Hey guys,

Its this girl again. She is always confusing me. One day she'll seem completely into me and the next she'll seem like she wants nothing to do with me.

I was getting with her every once in a while second semester of this year. This summer she lives an hour from me. We've seen each other a few times. NO ACTION. However there has been a lot of kino going on whenever I see her and what not.

This past week I was with her at her place chillen (no action again) and I told her that my friends and I were going to this concert. Well the next day she texts me saying guess who got tickets to taht concert also...ME.

So at this point I'm thinking SURE THING. This girl went out of her way to chill with ME.

So the concert comes. We danced for the 2nd half of it. I was grindin with her, rubbing my hands all over, whispering stuff into her ear yada yada yada. She eventually claimed her big sister was wasted and she had to take her home. So I'm like WTF, looked like we were having a great time.

Now, she has a good friend, lets call her A, that lives in my town so she came here yesterday to chill with her.

Now earlier in the day A asked me to pick her up from the bus stop becasue her parents weren't home. So I figured I would do her a favor.

So I get her, and my girl is with her...So now I'm thinking...did that innocent favor make me look like a B!TCH?

They say they were going to call me after they ate so we can meet up. Never got that call.

So Today shows up and I text A saying come by. A and my girl come over, we toke up and then were chillen. I figure I would spit some game over to my girl but she seemed so stand offish.

So that leaves me where I am. She goes from texting me liek 3-4 times a week and finally when we do hang out she doesn't call and seems stand offish...

Either shes playing the hard to get card (which at this point doesn't that seem a little rediculous considering I've gotten her before) or shes just fvcking with me...what do you guys take from this?
 

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JUAN the Great

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Stop ruminating. This means that stop overanalyzing. When you think too much ;it destroys your self esteem and game. Women do things like this. TAKE NOTHING THEY DO PERSONALLY. THEY ARE JUST WOMEN; THEY DO NOT USE REASON. So pay them no attention;they use tactics to game you. IF YOU FOLLOW THEY WILL FLEE;BUT IF YOPU FLEE THEY WILL FOLLOW. Also, game as many chicks as possible.
 

aix237

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dude next time you see her pay more attention to her friend. I was recently chillin with a girl that i am or was very close too. We didnt see each other for a cuople of weeks.. THen all the sudden she busts out this is awkward. Im like wtf for no reason. I started fvcking wtih her cause that pizzed me off and got her all worked up. Anyways dont stand for that sh1t. If you see her just be standoffish bascially mirror her actions. She does somehting do the same or you can ignore her if you dont like the way shes acting. basically stop chasing her so much and showing soo much interest. You back way the fvck off like no calls or anserwing replies for a couple of days she will throw herself on you like crazy. Do not initate touching etc. She seems like an AW. Your acting like every dude she deals with stand out and be different instead of constantly giving her an ego boost.
 

COD

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i concure way over analyzing..........men of action take action.

Dude her friend was there..........were you hoping to DO her right then and there.

Say this..........Hey are you wearing a bra............let me see.......cool........is it velcro or clasp closure...........let me see.......wow are those real or bought and paid for........you should be proud of them........lemme feel if they are infact real/fake.............cool

Are you wearing panties..............
 
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