"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BxPrince24

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Ok well, I got this girl's number friday so i called her tonight to set up a date for tomorrow (I'm off from college tomorrow). No answer. so i called about 4 more times later on. Still no pick up. I think she probably went out with her family since she's out of school for the whole week and no one's answering. And those of you thinking she doesn't want to pick up because it's me, not possible. First off, it's me. Second, she doesn't know my number.

Ok so what I wanted to know was if it was good to call her tomorrow and ask her if she wants to meet up? Or should I just set something up for friday? Btw, I do have some background with this girl, been flirtacious with each other in the past when I was still in high school. She's now a senior and I went back to visit on friday and we pretty much spent the time flirting and took a few pictures together.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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i think u're thinking too much. like most of the people on this board. oh well.

just call in a few days. no biggie. if she's home and she wants to talk to u, she'll pick up.
 

BxPrince24

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i don't know if i'm thinking too much. The thing is I want to take her out tomorrow because right now, i have the money to do so. But I can take her out friday aswell, the thing about that is that she might have plans for friday, more so than tuesday.

Don't get me wrong, I'm going to go to the places I plan to take her whether she comes or not. I'm just bringing her along, if she wants to go that is.
 
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