How good are you at insinuation?

[LeMac]

How good are you at getting people to suggest/do something as though it were there own idea, by your dropping of subtle hints and such?

I understand the concept behind this, and have done it generally unintentionally. If someone is skilled at this, would you mind shedding some light on how I can improve?

 

[Damian]

It's not about subtle hints, more like obvious suggestion. Just assume the roles and she will grow to fit them. It doesn't matter what the situation is, but work into the conversation, what role you want her to fill. I've found that it works wonders. By telling her what she shouldn't do, as if she were doing it, anchors her to fill the role. Don't look too serious when you're telling her, but instead try to sound playful and casual, then get back to what you were doing.

-"Stop hitting on me, I'm more than just a sex object."
-"I know you love me, but you're going to have to contain yourself."
-"I never knew women had such a blatant disregard for modesty."

At first, it will get you the "*scoff* he's such a jack@ss" reaction. This is normal. Just maintain the playful mentality. Eventually, your girl will learn to fill the roles that you give her.

-Damian

 

[Reagan]

Age: 16

 

[LeMac]

Originally posted by Reagan
Age: 16

Eh, which isn't a far step away from 17 or 18.

He may know what he's talking about. Anyone else got input?

BTW, I'm speaking more about...situational insinuation. Like say I want a girl to suggest me coming over to her house as though it was her idea, how might such a conversation go?

 

[Duke]

"I had a lot of fun talking to you. Is there a way we can continue this?"

*HB gives you her number*

"Cool, we'll swap. Here's mine."