mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I found that for "having fun" a babe that's not all into me and distracted by other guys is not fun for me. Its better if you're the guy they really want.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How Exactly Did we Get to this point?
- Thread starter Georgepithyou
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Programming.
Its good they show it the other way around too. Remember the Bachelorette episode where she had them strip and do stupid stuff for her entertainment and the one Chad opposed her and stood his ground?
Over time, women became in tune with male psychology and needs. They understood they could manipulate men with sex and children.
People in charge also discovered that in order to keep their position, power and money, they had to give women, the gender that creates life, POWER. Once you give women POWER, through the laws, through public opinion, though movies, through tv, through music, and you SHAME men who are single, your position is secure and you keep getting richer.
But notice, as I’ve said before, the POWER is given to women between her most fertile years 20 - 30, upto maybe 34. Once her fertile years are gone and her looks decline, the same system taketh away.