How do you tell a girl that you feel disrespected but not come off as a wuss.

[pointbreak23]

This is mainly for relationships but i suppose it can be applied to whomever you like. Say that your gf is being a little too flirty with another guy. How do you handle it? Im not really insecure about it, i just refuse to be with a woman who doesnt fully respect me. Should i talk to her about it and tell her my groundrules or do i just break up with her?

 

[King Turi]

Tell her "you were totally hittin' on that guy, does he have a girlfriend? Maybe he can introduce me to some of his lady friends?".

But I'm a d1ck, so take whatever I say with a grain of salt.

I just like pissing people off.

 

[Tiguere]

You let her know by removing some attention away from her. Distance a bit. When girls in a ltr flirts with others ot usually means someone is being taken from granted.

 

[pointbreak23]

You let her know by removing some attention away from her. Distance a bit. When girls in a ltr flirts with others ot usually means someone is being taken from granted.

yeah thats what i was thinking of doing but then what do i say if she asks me why ive been distant?

 

[sodbuster]

while you are with me you don't get to shop for a better guy. IF you think you can do better,lets break up and you can try.

 

[tafakna]

This one is simple: you comand respect by your actions not by asking for it.

The more aloof, the more independent, the less you need her, the more she will respect you.

You need to break her confidence. Act indifferent, flirt with other girls, make her think you lost some interest. But don't do this right after she flirts with the other guy, you need to do that on a daily basis. The worst thing that can happen is she seeing that you're doing something to get even...

 

[Proselytiser]

Exactly - speak through actions. So you would respond to the situation you describe by flirting with other girls.