How do you Start conversations in Class?

[Westwind]

Ok so in a few of my classes there atleast one really hot girl......

But i just dont know how to start a conversation. I've read some of the stuff people say and i've ran it through my head , pretending to say it. It just don't seem like any of that would really work.

Also in one of my classes the girl is in another table then iam. So what do you do? Doesn't it sound weird if u try to talk to someone in a table across from you.


I really just feel that i analyze things too much and have a lack of cofindence.

I need some help so please give your advice Djs.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

ok, if the girl is in class, and impossible to get to. You obviously need to just go approach in other environments, wait after class, or something. I dont think anyone here could give you advice on how to approach a girl during class that is not even in your vicinity.

As far as conversation goes in class, say something about her appearance, if she's wearing something out of the ordinary, if she's wearing a shirt with a team logo on it, ask her where she got it,etc. Or you can be really indirect and say some dumb bs about the class,etc.

I was dancing with this girl at the club the other night, and she got excited and happy, when i said something as simple as "i like your belt"

Now..if you go into class and have some set line in your head, your gonna say it and its gonna sound so artificial that the conversation will die very quickly. You'll have to learn to just converse on the go about anything at anytime.

One chick i picked up was a girl outside of class, i just started talking about stuff to do around here, eventually we started talking about trance music, and we talked for like 15 mins, got her # obviously, went out with her too.

Now had i gone into that set, ready to say a pre-constructed line like "hey i like your shoes.." my conversation would be very limited, and i probably wouldnt have gotten to the topic of music.

 

[DJ1234]

Don't try to use canned lines esp. if you don't think they would work for the situation your in cause most of the time it won't work because they are designed for a certain type of person/situation...

As for starting a conv. if it's not possible to initiate a conv. in class you need to make it where you can try talking before or after class...

You can ask about the class subject, teacher, class work etc.