"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you screen them?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WC2

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Bed them at least a few times before making any rash decisions. Women change drastically after you've been sleeping with them for a little while. Usually for the worst.
 

Aragon034

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It's kinda hard to screen them without spending time with them.

Gossip and Reputation help a bit, but just like us, you can't get to know a person by talking to someone else.

All you can really screen from afar is looks, body language, and other things that are worn on the sleeves.

I agree with WC2, chicks change ALOT after sex.
 

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Who said from afar? This isn't some covert CIA sh*t.


I'm kind of hoping to screen them before sex. This is where I usually have a problem.
The bad & weird & crazy ones, are a little hard to get rid of after I get too close.

Like this one BPD chick this summer. She just could not get hints. Even when I was direct with her.
She's gone now, but it was a complete waste of time.
 
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