"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well nexting the last flake im hoping i might not have just another one right after. I call this girl up and shes nice and all but i suck at reading women over the phone. Somewhere around the begining or end she says something like "thank u for calling" or "i appreciate you calling." Whats she saying? Thanks now i have your number to block, or really thanks for calling im happy to hear from you.
Im kinda confused and really cant think of a good comeback that might leave a smile on her face.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would take that at face value; she's actually glad you called. My opinion at least. ~Dino
 

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Ya

lets hope. tonight is the first test. She said she would call wether she has to work or not tonight. no phonecall = strike 1.
 

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It depends on the mood of the woman (women have 50 different moods so, it's complicated). When a woman says " I appreciate your phone call", she's usually talking to you like a friend. It sort of like her trying to say, "thank you for calling me, since you have time and all, but thanks." Never give a woman the impression that you have too much time on your hands or else you'll lose sexual value in her subconscious. If a woman says something like "I appreciate" say just say " I know ".....a confident and ****y " I know " not a wimpy and unsyre " I know ". You don't need any special lines for this.

Good Luck:cool:
 

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makes sence. i dont think ive blone it yet but hope she freaking calls..

Shees rair around these parts pluss she was into ballet a while. (she can ndance and is limber as heck.. the moves she did to stretch before her water ski run in her bikini will drive any guy wild lol.:woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah if a chick says things like that she is telling the truth.she doesnt know you so she doesnt care if she hurts your feelings. the thing that would be bad is if you called and she said let me call you back right off the bat. but remember to keep the phone convo and to the point, have plans or something. oh and always get off the phone first, no matter what. this is very important, at least in the begining.
 

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ya

well 2 things. ive called her twice. once to say whatsup (she was on the ski team but disapeared. hurt her neck at her home lake.) i never got her number from her (got it through one of the captain guys) so im guessing its a bit odd but still good since we hung out on a dock a few times. Both times she beat me to the end and with vurbal cues in the background she was busy. though i would guess her picking up twice instead of leaving it for voicemail is good.
 

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IM0001 , these days I just usually follow the "3 strikes" rule. I give a girl benefit of the doubt twice; it is technically feasible that someone could miss your call, or be busy, or forget to return your call, or whatever, twice. But not a third time. That's how I look at it least. I'm sure everyone has their own "rules" on this. Some guys probably only give one try. So if she doesn't call you tonight then that's strike 1, as you said. And I wouldn't call her back again for a few days after that. See if she calls you at all. If you try again and she still doesn't get back to you , forget it, don't call her back again unless or until she calls you. You're only 19; there got to be tons of girls out there for you to talk to. Never sweat just one.
 

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Yup

Dino's got it nailed.

My motto is to always have a number ready if one doesn't work out. That way you're never that upset. You've got better things on your mind...

But, yeah. Dino's got it. By the way, Dino, is that "3 Strikes" rule yours? I like it...
 

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By the way, Dino, is that "3 Strikes" rule yours? I like it...

>>> Yeah I think that I made it up. Actually, knowing me I probably heard or read it somewhere and THEN I "made it up".... :D Feel free to use it though, anytime you like. ~Dino
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Feel free to use it though, anytime you like..."

Will do. I got a buddy of mine going through something similar (we all have, I'm sure), so I'll give him the rule...hmm...he should really come to this site...

1!
 

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WTF,, be the dominant male kid, do a search and read up on this stuff. Why do you think women are horny over jerks and thugs...becasue they are the dominant men. Its in their b.l., voice tone, etc. You should read Gunwitchs material. Once you guys learn the TRUTH, to a womens attraction, trust me, all this dumb gay azz shyt that you guys post will stop, trust me, I learned and now I know.
 
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