"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do YOU qualify women?

Jariel

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We all know about women using sh1t tests and trying to qualify guys and I believe too many of you worry about trying to meet the woman's standards. However, as confident, selective and valued men, we have a right to test and qualify too. Making sure a woman meets your standards may save you a lot of hassle down the road.

So, out of curiosity, how do you qualify a woman when getting to know her and what standards to you expect her to meet? Here's some of mine:


Slvt test:

I like a woman who is affectionate and tactile, but not women who are sexually forward on a first date or want sex without getting to know me. These women are too easy/slvtty for my standards and will get the elbow at the end of the night.


Game playing:

If I recognise a woman playing head games with me, I reduce my time with her and call her bluff. If they continue, she's nexted.


Attention wh0re test:

Any woman who flirts with other guys while she is with me gets put on the backburner until she comes around. I may give her a second chance if she asks, but this is a 2 strike only rule.


Golddigger test:

I don't mind paying on dates, but if a woman asks me to pay, for money or to buy her something during our initial dates, it's over.


Impoliteness:

If a woman is ever rude to me, I expect an apology. If she doesn't apologise, then she is gone.


Posessiveness:

I appreciate loyalty and I'm flattered if a woman gets jealous sometimes, but I treat a posessive woman with caution. They can turn nasty and drive away friends.


Ignorance:

If a woman ever ignores or evades me, I make it easy for her. She just better not try contacting me again without a good explanation.


Arrogance:

Confidence is attractive, even in women, but arrogance is very offputting to me. A woman who is full of herself or expects me to worship her will find herself nexted instead.


Anyway, that's all the major ones. These are things that I treat as major warning signs and look out for in women I'm seeing. In some cases, I will overlook some minor offenses, but bear in mind I'm looking for a relationship so this sh1t will not stand with me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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crowes22

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Mine are very simple at this point in time. They are:


If she just wants to fvck, we'll work out. If she wants anything more or attempts to run my life in anyway, we most certainly won't be seeing each other anymore.
 

nishbuk

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Mine's similar, but more like:

I have my own life. If she ever intervenes on that, or tries to make me change what I'm doing, she's out like a light.
 

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You date so often that you have a chance to apply all these rules? I have no set rules and I don't think about applying any. If there is chemistry, I proceed. When the negatives get too much, I lose interest and that's the end of it.
For most guys, the attractive women hold most of the cards at first anyway (despite what all the "DJ's" say around here) so proceed carefully.
 
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