"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do you handle take away girls/cblockers?

MattS

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how do you handle girls like this? its happened to me and i even get pi$%ed when i see one do it to a guy i dont even know. why do they do this sh!t?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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3rdeye

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you gotta tame that pu$$y down and de-fuse the blocker with a wingman.
 

ARrocket

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How would you handle it when it is a girl that has relationship potential? As in a friend of hers that doesn't seem to approve...
 

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MattS said:
how do you handle girls like this? its happened to me and i even get pi$%ed when i see one do it to a guy i dont even know. why do they do this sh!t?
****blocking guys are the biggest a-holes on this earth.

I swear to Christ, they should make it a misdemeanor.

A friend of mine did that to me about 18 months ago and I still am a little pissed at him for it. If the girl was girlfriend material, I would of been furious.
 

Wodan

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You need a team mentality with friends or a friend, one of you 'takes one for the team' and pretends to like the ugly one so she doesnt drag the hot one she's with off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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suamijee

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well some guys who are natural at picking up women, are easily able to sense women with high BT. (credit tyler)

coz thats what these naturals thrive on. the high BT.

so when they see u in "Set" with a girl, and u have spiked the BT sufficiently enuff, right.. these naturals lose track of their thought process, and they just ZOOM IN on that chick with the high BT. bloody hell!! i wish i could zap them out with a stun gun when they do that. LOL. its happened to me heaps of times, and i just stand there and carry on plowing, or i just eject and move on to the next set if it doesnt seem worthwhile lol.

some of this is tyler durden material so check him out he's really thorough in his explanations. dont take my version of it, coz different ppl would interpret the stuff in different ways
 

DonJuan11

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MattS said:
how do you handle girls like this? its happened to me and i even get pi$%ed when i see one do it to a guy i dont even know. why do they do this sh!t?
They do it because they have no confidence. If they did, they wouldn't knock the other person down to feel better about themselves.

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