"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you handle moving targets?

goodfella86

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How do you open/approach when you're walking and your target is coming directly towards you or walking past you? :woo: I get mad at myself because many times I'll get good eye contact but don't approach because one/both of us are going somewhere (possibly in a hurry to a class or something). I feel weird stopping them in the middle of wakling even though they might have given me good EC.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJoseCantosie

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I love doing moving targets that come toward ur direction.
THis does work. Trust me! I've done it.

Right when she's 5-10 feet away from you. Put your arm out fully and then do a stop hand motion. Make sure ur hand is not fully up, but about 80% sticking up. While u do this say, "Stop" with a powerful voice but make sure ur smiling in both ur face and eyes. This is crucial.

This does work, trust me. 9/10 if u do this the right way...girls will stop. Then u do ur opener. If you have any doubt, still try it 10 times and come back :)
 

New2Town

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You need to have really, really good aim for this to work. Get a tranquilizer gun and make sure you aim right in front of where the person will walk. If you guess correctly, you should hit them and BANG! you have nailed a moving target.
 

Damian

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Well, one of the most important keys to engaging moving sets is to get them to CHANGE DIRECTION. If they're walking forward and you're just blocking the path, they are still facing their original destination. You haven't fully captured there attention.

This is a good Lance Mason trick: You can ask them for directions, and when you do, you engage a little bit of kino. Walk towards them and point behind them asking something like, "Do you know where Starbucks is? I'm supposed to meet my friends there, but I'm new to this part of town. My friend told me it's in THAT direction, but the directions say it's over THERE." When you say THAT and THERE, you can actually initiate casual kino (hand on the back, or shoulder) and physically turn them by directing their attention into a different direction. When you've got them turned around, you have their full attention and you can proceed with the set as you would any other. Just make sure you keep the attention of the whole group or else one or two of them will start giving each other "wtf...let's get out of here" looks.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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^New2town Yea...like u could actually stop a moving target O:)

Goodfella...just so you know...i'm 100% flat out serious.
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=FYbBVN7lJmo
thats badboy's demonstration of it.
Don't underestimate it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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