“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How do you guys stay motivated?

Solomon

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There days where I'm pumped I'm ready to go and kick ass, work out and follow my diet wonderfully but then their days like today where I dont wanna get at 5:30 am and rather sleep an hour or so more, I wake up I feel guilty. Knowing that if I woke up I would feel more energetic. Im not trying to make excuses but man how yall stay motivated day in and day out?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I treat lifting as a sport. It is no longer a means to an end(getting bigger) and the results are more real(actual numbers in lifting, not some change in the mirror). Try getting into powerlifting or even weightlifting.
 
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You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage – pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically – to say ‘no’ to other things. And the way to do that is by having a bigger ‘yes’ burning inside. The enemy of the ‘best’ is often the ‘good.’
-Stephen Covey
 

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I think it boils down to how bad you want it. There are some days, like today, where I have to literally drag myself to the gym and workout. The desire to get out of my 100lbs weight range is greater than my urge to slack off.
 

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Ciel said:
I treat lifting as a sport. It is no longer a means to an end(getting bigger) and the results are more real(actual numbers in lifting, not some change in the mirror). Try getting into powerlifting or even weightlifting.
This.

When you do so, lifting becomes a passion, instead of a necessary evil you have to do to achieve your other goals. I have no problem getting my arse out of bed for any of my passions. I have not missed a single session out of laziness or any lame excuse since I started powerlifting.

Btw I still hate working out in the mornings and don't do it. I work out straight after work instead.
 

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I give myself alot of slack when I need it, inversly I try to work out off schedule also to make up for the slacking. Dont just break schedule for lazyness, if you wake up of an off day feeling good, hit the gym dude..
 

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I picture my goal, then it gets me motivated. The results are rewarding enough to actually get off my ass and try my hardest to achieve. Also another motivating factor is to set a high goal, one that doesn't seem realistic. Then tell a friend of mine. He always says I wont be able to do it, and it motivates me to prove him wrong.
 

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Motivation comes and goes ...

The last few months I've been training consistent and eating properly for the first time since 2007.

The best advice I can give is to make it easy for yourself:

The longer you have to spend each day on achieving your goals, the less likely you are to stay on the rails.

The further you are from your gym, and the longer it takes to get there, the less likely you are to drag yourself there on bad days.

The more time you have to spend in the kitchen to eat properly, the less likely you are to eat properly.

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Tips:

1. Training: Train at the closest gym you can, and make time in your schedule each day for training. Try to make it at the same time each day, for consistency.

2. Diet: Tupperware, oven, boiled eggs, vegetable steamer, frozen veggies, oats, brown rice, tuna cans, water jugs, big cups, several protein shakers.

Spend $$ on enough tupperware to put at least 4 days of meals in. At 6 meals a day, that is 24 tupperware containers.

Cook your protein on Sunday for the coming week, divide it into the proper portions and put 3 days of food in the fridge and the rest in the freezer. Move frozen food to the fridge 48 hours before you eat it.

I like to bake chicken breast, cook hard-boiled eggs and steam a couple days of vegetables at a time. Baking chicken breast is easy and you can cook many at once. I put 10 chicken breast in the oven after drizzling with lemon and sprinkling with salt and pepper. Come back in 45 minutes and you have 5 days worth of lunch and dinner prepared and ready to go.

Hard-boiled eggs are a godsend. Put 12-24 eggs in a large pot of water, turn the stove to High and put the pot over the heat. Come back in 15-25 minutes and you have 12-24 eggs ready to go. Put them back in the trays they came in and put them in the fridge. Great for breakfast and lunch on the go, and saves a lot of kitchen time that you'd spend if you were to cook eggs daily. Keeps them fresh too.

Get a rice cooker. Measure out a weeks worth of long-grain brown rice and follow the cooking instructions. Come back in an hour and you have 7 days worth of carbs.

Oats. Learn to like steel-cut rolled oats. Boil some water in the morning and use it for your coffee/green tea, and your oats. Really simple and cheap.

Tuna cans. Get a good can opener and buy bulk tuna cans. Great for meals on wheels. Bring a good fork.

Water jugs. Get four glass 1/4 gallon water jugs and fill them before bed each night. Toss out all the condiments and salad dressings in the door of your refrigerator and put them there. Make sure you drink all four by bedtime each day. Buy a nice water bottle to take with you on the road, to work and class.

Lunch box. It's cool to have a lunch bag/box. Get one, and some of those ice packs. Put the ice packs in the freezer overnight. Put 1 or 2 of them in the box in the morning and add two or three tupperware containers with your away-from-home meals, your water bottle, and your protein shakers.

Ziplock bags. Put your multivitamins and any supplements you take in a few ziplock bags and put them in your lunch box as well. Take your fish oil in the morning or at night.

Clothing. Buy 7 plain t-shirts, 7 training shorts, 7 pairs of socks and a large bag to use for your training gear. It saves a lot of time usually spent on washing clothes each week. You always have a set ready to go.

Consistency and motivation. Buy a calendar and put it on your wall above your desk. Put an X for each day you hit the gym, and another X for each time you do cardio, and a 3rd X for each day you eat properly. Be accountable to yourself.

Set aside 2.5 hours each Sunday to take care of the above, plus whatever time it takes you to run to the store and buy food.

You can put 12 chicken breast in the oven, steam 3lbs of broccoli, boil 24 eggs, and make 14 servings of rice all in about an hour and a half. That takes care of the bulk of your diet for the week, fill in the rest with some tuna, oats, frozen veggies, and lean beef.

^ Make it easy for yourself and less about achieving peak motivation, and more about routine, consistency and going through the motions. Rely on a practical and efficient system, not your emotion. The system doesn't have bad days or take days off, so even if you aren't at peak motivation, it's still easy for you to grab a few tupperware containers, a protein shaker, and drive to the gym with your fresh set of training clothes to grind out the day, than sit at home because you couldn't be ****ed to spend an hour cooking a meal and 30 minutes commuting to the gym.
 
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