"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cablecow15

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Getting a hotel room tomorrow night at a nice hotel with a bar in it , gonna do my best to have a great time and hopefully ill be able to bring a girl or two to my room , how have any of you gone about persuading a girl back to your room ? im going to bring alcohol as a start , but cant think of much else ...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get the highest floor you can.

If it has a good view of your city at night, you can use that selling point.

1. Drop that the view is amazing. (Hopefully you aren't looking at the parking garage or a cooling tower lol.)

2. A little bit later, "I'm gonna go upstairs and relax for a while and watch some tv. You should come up."
 

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Mike32ct said:
Get the highest floor you can.

If it has a good view of your city at night, you can use that selling point.

1. Drop that the view is amazing. (Hopefully you aren't looking at the parking garage or a cooling tower lol.)

2. A little bit later, "I'm gonna go upstairs and relax for a while and watch some tv. You should come up."
All the rooms and hallways are indoors , there's even a indoor pool , I may still use the view thing and come up with something funny , I figure Ill have a great night either way , but if i can bring a girl back , that would just be icing on the cake
 
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