"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cablecow15

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Whats the best kino and how to do it.
i know when to use it but i dont do it well
i used to know this guy that was a master
at it he could this thing where all he did was
touch a girls hand in a certin way and it
would turn them on enough for them to
go wow. i want to learn somthing like that.
and im shure other pepole would too.
if you know how to do this please share the secret.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smooth Player 056

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No such thing man.

If you could touch a girl in a way to get her, there would be no need for the game.

Kino is a supplement to PUA's/DJ's, like Protien Shakes are a supplement to bodybuilders. It may help a little.....but if your game isnt top notch....kino wont help at all.

The way to kino in Opening to Mid game... is to ESCALATE.l

At the begging of the sarge, brush the shoulder, touch her arm...then slowly escalate and rest your hand on her forearm. Then you can rest you hand on her knee as you advance the sarge. Soon you will have your hand on her inner thigh etc.

As with eveything in this game, 1 time of field work with kino...will help you more than reading hundereds of posts about kino.

PS- I use very mild kino. It is over rated here on these forums...you can be a great DJ and use NO kino at all.

Love,
Smooth
 

Mr. Debonaire

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actually, kino is important

the best method of applying kino is to verbally use c&f, as if you didn't care about her, but use kino such as patting her on the shoulder after teasing her, as if your saying its ok.

This shows her that you aren't friend material. Your shagging material :)
 

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kino has to come naturally, the more you do it the easier it will get. try the shoulers, stroking or holding the hand, and the back are the easiest to start will.

for example: you or a person makes fun of her for something, you put your hand on your shoulder and you "share a moment".

look in the highschool forums
 

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It really depends on your style. I am latin, and kino is big in latin culture, it just comes naturally with us. Americans tend to be more reserved, so it isn't usually part of your natural style. Whatever kino you do, it has to be smooth and natural, and you can't be too aggresive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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