How do you deal with the slutty type of girls??

[Jester090]

I'm sick and tired of this certain type of girl. You know, the type that approaches YOU, giving you massive IOI's both verbally and physically for what seems like not very much gaming on your behalf. We're talking the REAL touchy and bold type. And keep in mind we're talking high school, and alcohol is not a factor in this behavior.

Just when I think "damn, this girl is really giving me signals, I better make a move" I turn around and see her hugging / kissing on cheek / putting her arm around another guy who did ABSOLUTELY nothing to provoke attraction (and trust me, I know what attracts girls). The type of girl I'm talking about does this sh*t with 5 or more different guys everyday. These girls also say the phrase "you know I love you X", to just about EVERY guy they talk to. It frustrates the hell out of me when I'm mislead by this behavior.

So what I wanna know is: how do you deal with these girls??? Because I know many of these girls who are attractive, single, and give me massive IOI's, but these same girls seem so INCREDIBLY unreliable as a girlfriend because of this behavior. How are you supposed to truly know whether the IOI's mean something or if you are just another one of her tools?

 

[Whatevs]

I know exactly what you mean man... it pisses me off because now I dont know if the chicks into me or just being a hoe

But anyways, I dont have a solution but im gunna keep an eye on this for sure to see what people say. I just wanted you to know yorue deffintley not the only one

 

[Rocko]

Well, these girls are known as teases, bad situation with one you can read about:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101757

 

[AC/DC]

Girls like that won't tease you if they really want you. You'll KNOW.

But remember, if its that easy, it's not worth getting.

 

[Sammo]

Are they 'slutty' or just dying for attention?

Slutty girls are easy, as they **** at the drop of a hat, by the sound of it this girl isn't slutty.

She probably has no intention being with the guys she is flirting with, including you (let the ego take a break for a minute), she is merely trying to feed her insatiable hunger for attention and a feeling of importance.

Text book case man, negs, tease her, then .... DONT give her the attention.

Push pull techniques work well with these kind of girls.

They are honestly the easiest girls to pick up, you just gotta figure out how.

P.S. As these girls want attention, they will only **** guys who are percieved as 'cool'. And depending on how hot she is, you might have to be 'really cool'. They are shallow i know, but if you dont have the status she is craving, she wont **** you.

 

[BassBuddha]

Dude, I totally know where you're coming from too. If this girl is ungodly hot and is ungodly good at female kino and otherwise, we're on the same page. What I've found is that you need to get with their best friend. No sh1t. This will do one of two things: A.) Make them jealous to temporarily override their attention-seeking complex to get at you, or B.) At least you railed her best friend. It's a win-win situation!

 

[cant think of a user name]

Whoa, calm down, some of you guys get frustrated at some of the smallest issues.

You already said you think she's slutty, and that she'd not make a reliable girlfriend, so just forget about that altogether. Forget about trying to make her your girlfriend or anything like that.

You can just have fun (safely), if the opportunity comes up. If not then no big deal. Don't be trying to go after these types that you perceive as unreliable.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

I had a case like this when i was a junior,i was just sitting listening to music and she wanted to listen,so i offered her 1 earplug,after that i spit her game right back at her "i can't trust YOU" , "why would i listen to YOU" and step up the game "you can't touch me like that,it's sexual assault" were pretty common things i said keeping a straight face.I just showed her that her sh!t does not work with me and i initiated and ended all the touching/conversations(she would try to ask me something as i was leaving but totally ignored her/or grab my shoulder while leaving).After a week of this treatment she almost pryed the cellphone off my hands,typed in her # and email,gave it back and ran.I never bothered to call.Good thing is you can use REALLY ****y comments and be really agressive around them and they eat it up quite well cause these girls are literally DROWNING in afc's and they end up with the BIGGEST JERKS EVER.

 

[Jester090]

Follow Up

She probably has no intention being with the guys she is flirting with, including you (let the ego take a break for a minute), she is merely trying to feed her insatiable hunger for attention and a feeling of importance.

Text book case man, negs, tease her, then .... DONT give her the attention.

Push pull techniques work well with these kind of girls.

They are honestly the easiest girls to pick up, you just gotta figure out how.

Dude, I have teased her, used C&F on her, and it just ends up in her laughing and doing lots of kino on me, but what difference does it make?? The next day she's doing the same kino with 10 other guys right in front of my face, so I feel like yesterday meant absolutely nothing to her. And if I just ignore her, she'll just kino other guys like she normally does.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

these girls are literally DROWNING in afc's and they end up with the BIGGEST JERKS EVER.

nailed it

 

[MrS]

Put it in their bum.

 

[dannowillbookem]

they just do that to every guy to see how he reacts. if youre easy, she'll move on. if you resist her (pervert stop touching me! that kind of funny negs) she'll take your challenge and try to win you into bed.

cha ching.

 

[disciple]

If she is a **** tease, forget her.

If she is a real slut, give her what she wants, a good f*ck.

 

[Jester090]

Re:

they just do that to every guy to see how he reacts. if youre easy, she'll move on. if you resist her (pervert stop touching me! that kind of funny negs) she'll take your challenge and try to win you into bed.

cha ching.

Yeah but in order to get her into bed there comes a point where I'd have to kino her, and wouldn't that be like giving up the chase for a tease like this??

 

[Skilla_Staz]

If she is a **** tease, forget her.

If she is a real slut, give her what she wants, a good f*ck.

Good luck with the STD's that may come. I don't put up with sluts. If I got a girl hanging from my jock, I'm workin' my game and stuff, and I turn around and see her hanging from my friends, and any other guy, I'm done with that. She wants me, she'll work for it. Otherwise I'm not putting up with that sh*t. I got better things to do then chase after the local joint. Something about the "pass it around and hit it" aspect just doesn't appeal to me. I like my women classy.

 

[Roobs]

why's it bother yo so much that she flirts with everyone?-- it sounds to me like you want her too much, like people have said above, push and pull, give her attention anthen none

see what she does if you flirt with other girls

above all, relax,have a good time doing whatever it is you're doing, and dont care so much

 

[tigre]

From a previous experience, I tell you that that girl is not worth to become your girlfriend, or anything serious. those girls are sluts and only want to be ****ed, fingered, etc..if you get all emotional over her, she will dump you or ignore you trust me.

 

[hot stuff]

This sounds familiar! i was once seeing a girl casually who was like that; she flirted with every boy on sight, and also had other boyfriends! I questioned her about it basically told her 'she would either have to stop it or i was off'! Hehe guess what she choose!? i guess she couldn't resist me eh?

No but seriously, this is the way to deal with these girls: DJ rules apply very much so, but you cannot give her very much attention at all and she will be craving for it! Because you, my friend will be the only one not giving her attention! As Pook puts it 'you are the prize to be won'! NOT HER

 

[SynapsyS]

The solution is; She walks over, gives you major IOI's and you say;

"Listen, how about you **** off? K, bye "

You already said that you don't think she'd make a good girlfriend, and i doubt she'd make a good friend either. Girls like that need a bit of reality now and then. I don't really condone any activity that's negative, but these girls piss me right off as well, and while you'll probably get a slap, it might get her thinking that, hey, maybe she is just being a stupid attention *****. Who knows, the fact that you present such a challenge for her might make her want you more, and, because you REALLY don't actually want her, she'll keep coming back.

Which gives you massive plusses for the girls you actually do wish to go out with, because this pet attention seeker of yours is giving you MAJOR social proof.

Win, win and win.

 

[KontrollerX]

I next them instantly.

Attention seeking girls like that usually have Histrionic Personality Disorder.

http://www.toad.net/~arcturus/dd/histrion.htm

A girl with this personality disorder is a type of sociopath not very different from the Hannibal Lecter character minus the killing aspect as the sociopath type that character is, is Anti Social.

All sociopaths have a fractured if not completely gone conscience so they can hurt people with no remorse. Also all of them are pathological liars, manipulators and don't have a true personality of their own so they put on a false mask of personality of what they think you will like to get you to fall for them or be their friend.

Again the worst type of sociopath is the Anti Social Personality Disordered full blown psychopath but this type of girl a Histrionic is a degree of sociopath too and a fake person as a result and she puts on a false mask of normalcy and personality by acting extremely sexual and flirtation with just about all men she encounters so she can con them out of whatever she may need at the time or in the future.

The promise of sex after all is a very potent drug and hard if not impossible for most men to resist.

With the Histrionic its usually always a game with the majority of guys to get what she wants and she typically never delivers the sex to the guys that fall for her con.

Only the guys that act extremely emotionally cold to her with vague interest can get her in the bedroom and on her back.

A lot of guys who get this advice and use it on them find that it works and think yeah I followed that advice and gamed her good now she thinks I'm special and loves me!

Dream on. A Histrionic is a milder type of another kind of sociopath known as Borderline Personality Disorder which is sometimes called a disease of intimacy. So with all the cold behaviour your HPD girl is now responding to you and you think you've got her wrapped around your finger and you do partially but the thing is no matter how much she is attached to you they will always cheat on you because they literally need the new excitement of affairs to ward off their depression and anxiety that come with the disorder as pills just won't get it done for these chicks.

Also eventually as a normal man you will want to become closer and more intimate with your Histrionic and love her more and share more together thinking she loves you now and is yours.

Don't do it. Again its a milder form of BPD which is a disease of intimacy. These girls are pathologically afraid to get close to people because they think (no matter how much re-assurance that you give them) you will eventually abandon them no matter what. The BPD's are worse about this as when you're in a relationship with them they'll literally cry sometimes if you leave the room but an HPD their fear of abandonment is internalized so they always will appear more normal than a BPD which in my view makes them more dangerous.