Money?Looks? I dont think so.
My answer?
We must learn to truly become confident with ourselves.
Self-doubt and self-hate is the root of all our hesitations, lack of leadership, thus emasculated behaviours. Men are truly happy and content when they are being men. People call it hard to be a man. A headache. Some hate leading, some hate making decisions and some hate being assertive. They say it drains their energy. But why? Because being a man isn’t an action but a MENTALITY. You can't turn up and start faking men like behaviours and expect results. Why?
1) You’ll get caught out sooner than later
2) ACTING like something you aren’t WILL drain your energy
3) It drives you in the opposite direction of your true goal; becoming a man.
To become so independent that nothing can phase you, you must adopt the MENTALITY.
True power is when one cannot be phased. Any adversity and he is barely scathed.
The calm in the chaos.
How do we do this? How do we achieve such a great power?
My answer lies in self-control and discipline.
Most men have no self-control thus why their life is chaos. Men like this come onto forums like this in order to bring some order into their lives. They want tips and tricks. Quick fixes. It may work from time to time but for the overall greatness of being a man, it is useless.
Self- control may sound like a minor thing, but it is quite possible the hardest aspect of all, especially in this era.
So what do we mean by self-control and discipline?
The demands of our instincts are what we call desires. What we do with these desires is what determines our level of self-control.
What desires do we have in this world that we must have control over?
Sleep
Food
Sex
Toungue/speech
Sleep: Do you have weird sleep patterns? Do you sleep too late sometimes and wake too late/early? Is there any discipline in your sleeping schedule? Or do you sleep and wake only when the body desires it? Create a sleep schedule and be very strict with it. Sleep early and wake early.
Food: Look around you. Look at the foods that we are being promoted. Our hearts desire it and we give in. It seems harmless if you aren’t morbidly obese. It is even if you aren’t. Don’t be that guy. Control your food. Its not always about ‘if I look okay and still eat what I want, its all good.’ That’s not the case. The purpose is to control the instinct.
Sex: This is probably going to be controversial. Yes have sex, but don’t just phuck whenever your balls want it. Don’t masturbate because your pen1s asks for it. You do this and you slowly become a slave, a slave of women. Theres more to life than just sex. Have it but don’t make it your priority. If she wants it and you give in everytime, you are nothing but a slave. Control.
Toungue/speech: How many times have you had the desire to spread a secret someone has told you? How many times have you wanted to tell someone about this huge success you achieved. How many times have you spoken to make yourself feel important? Many times. That burning desire the tongue creates is what needs to be controlled. Keep your cards close to yourself. Keep the secrets people have told you to yourself. Speak when spoken to and when there is something beneficial to say. Idle talk is for the weak and for women.
The above isn’t to cut out desire like a monk but to CONTROL them. These are necessities in our life and we overlook them. We get caught up in them not knowing that we have become a slave of these very desires.
Free yourself from these and you will control not only yourself but control how people think and treat you.
My father is the best example of this. I have never come across anyone with more discipline and self control than him. He is the alpha male In EVERY situation. He is never phased and keeps his cool but at the same time controls situations the way he wants them to be. The one thing I have seen in him that I don’t in others is his self-control and discipline.
Being able to control your instincts will make you a master at being un-phased.It breeds confidence as now you have full control over YOURSELF. People can see this and they read it and they respect it.
Just my 2 cents.
My answer?
We must learn to truly become confident with ourselves.
Self-doubt and self-hate is the root of all our hesitations, lack of leadership, thus emasculated behaviours. Men are truly happy and content when they are being men. People call it hard to be a man. A headache. Some hate leading, some hate making decisions and some hate being assertive. They say it drains their energy. But why? Because being a man isn’t an action but a MENTALITY. You can't turn up and start faking men like behaviours and expect results. Why?
1) You’ll get caught out sooner than later
2) ACTING like something you aren’t WILL drain your energy
3) It drives you in the opposite direction of your true goal; becoming a man.
To become so independent that nothing can phase you, you must adopt the MENTALITY.
True power is when one cannot be phased. Any adversity and he is barely scathed.
The calm in the chaos.
How do we do this? How do we achieve such a great power?
My answer lies in self-control and discipline.
Most men have no self-control thus why their life is chaos. Men like this come onto forums like this in order to bring some order into their lives. They want tips and tricks. Quick fixes. It may work from time to time but for the overall greatness of being a man, it is useless.
Self- control may sound like a minor thing, but it is quite possible the hardest aspect of all, especially in this era.
So what do we mean by self-control and discipline?
The demands of our instincts are what we call desires. What we do with these desires is what determines our level of self-control.
What desires do we have in this world that we must have control over?
Sleep
Food
Sex
Toungue/speech
Sleep: Do you have weird sleep patterns? Do you sleep too late sometimes and wake too late/early? Is there any discipline in your sleeping schedule? Or do you sleep and wake only when the body desires it? Create a sleep schedule and be very strict with it. Sleep early and wake early.
Food: Look around you. Look at the foods that we are being promoted. Our hearts desire it and we give in. It seems harmless if you aren’t morbidly obese. It is even if you aren’t. Don’t be that guy. Control your food. Its not always about ‘if I look okay and still eat what I want, its all good.’ That’s not the case. The purpose is to control the instinct.
Sex: This is probably going to be controversial. Yes have sex, but don’t just phuck whenever your balls want it. Don’t masturbate because your pen1s asks for it. You do this and you slowly become a slave, a slave of women. Theres more to life than just sex. Have it but don’t make it your priority. If she wants it and you give in everytime, you are nothing but a slave. Control.
Toungue/speech: How many times have you had the desire to spread a secret someone has told you? How many times have you wanted to tell someone about this huge success you achieved. How many times have you spoken to make yourself feel important? Many times. That burning desire the tongue creates is what needs to be controlled. Keep your cards close to yourself. Keep the secrets people have told you to yourself. Speak when spoken to and when there is something beneficial to say. Idle talk is for the weak and for women.
The above isn’t to cut out desire like a monk but to CONTROL them. These are necessities in our life and we overlook them. We get caught up in them not knowing that we have become a slave of these very desires.
Free yourself from these and you will control not only yourself but control how people think and treat you.
My father is the best example of this. I have never come across anyone with more discipline and self control than him. He is the alpha male In EVERY situation. He is never phased and keeps his cool but at the same time controls situations the way he wants them to be. The one thing I have seen in him that I don’t in others is his self-control and discipline.
Being able to control your instincts will make you a master at being un-phased.It breeds confidence as now you have full control over YOURSELF. People can see this and they read it and they respect it.
Just my 2 cents.
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