"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you act dominant when talking to random girls in daygame situations?

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Like the thread says "How do you act dominant when talking to random girls in day game situations? I wonder because there's a few keys things that stand out.

1. You can't really touch strange women in the daytime initially, could be sexual harassment or other negative things.
2. How to tell girls to not leave and to not text while talking with you while not coming off as a control freak, a hothead, or a jerk.
3. Most likely you will be talking with taken women. So how to remain confident and mentally strong in the face of all that?
4. What to do when a random woman takes a phone call while talking to you? Should you leave or not?(I figure leaving is the most popular answer). Also, when a woman is on the clock and she goes back to work while she is near you?

I figured the tips forum was the place to ask. Seems like conversation is about the only way to woo a woman in the daytime.
Lately, I've been trying to talk to more random women and try to get their phone numbers. I'd say 90 % of the women I'm talking to are initially taken.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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