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How do stop my sweating

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Ok so I have this problem with underarm sweating, It happens when im with other people. If im at home im ok. So im guessing its because im shy or something. I dont feel nervous about talking to people. Even when im with my cousin or friends I start sweating. Its so annoying. I got all these good looking tshirts I cant wear out of the house cuz underarm sweating. Its been happening for about 2 years ago.

I used to be pretty shy but I started college this year and I have came out of my shell but this is holding me back, I cant go out in just a tshirt or get a job that involves wearing a shirt.

I tried wearing 2 shirts, It soaked through, even came through 3 shirts.

Anyone else have this problem, how you cure/hide it ?

How can I stop being so damn nervous or build confidence whatever.
 

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Rexona deodorant stops sweting, it really does, but I dont use it because its smell is not my type.
 

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That is actually quite a common problem. There is all kinds of treatments available for that. If you can, try to see a doctor about it, there is ways the can shut off some of the sweating regions in your body also there is medication.
 

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Going to doc will be my last resort I think
 

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is it also common to sweat ALOT like dancing

cuz i shower, i put deodordrant and clone

i was at a social last night and i could smell myself a lil

plus it was very hot in there but i still sweat alot even when im doing other things like playing sports.. i sweat more than usual thats the thing
 

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sweating and high body temperature is good, sign of a high metabolism

even in the depths of winter with the central heating turned off I have to sleep in virtually my skin

oh. misread the post :p
 

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I have kinda of a similar problem accept its not my underarms sometimes my hands get sweaty when holding onto the train rails or holding the mouse in school. Sometimes my ass gets sweaty too but i think its because i wear jeans, shorts, boxers.
 

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get an anti-presprient, not just regular deodorant. If that doesn't work see a doctor.
 

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Ah dude, I have the exact same problem. It's terrible, I have all these nice shirts and I can't wear them to school because I sweat. Even if I double it goes through, so I just wear sweatshirts all the time. I have anti-perspirent (sp?) and it doesn't do nothing. Don't wanna see a doc though...
 

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try shaving ur armpit hair and when you are chilling or whatever, dont keep ur arms to the side...give ur pits some breathing room, lol.

Also rock and undershirt and cutback on strenuos activity

It wont stop sweatin but it shud minimize it
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trim pit hair.
Use mitchum deodorant.
Get stuff called Certain Dri (I get it at Kroger), it actually shrinks the pores in your armpits.
 

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This has been discussed several times before, try a search in the future.

For a quick recap of what all the results ended up saying, "Dri Sol" works the best, but it's a prescription liquid you put on at night. "Certain Dri" is made by the same people, it's a less potent form that you can buy over the counter. Mitchum Unscented Gel is the other option.

Here's just 1 result:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=11881
 
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