Ok here goes. This is obviously my first post but been lurking for a good while. My situations a bit different, i think. See im a black guy, 6ft, skinny but not weak, with a nice face(had chicks call me a pretty star wtm) and a swagger. Women of my race dont take kindly to me. I mainly attract hispanic and white women, moreso the former. My circle consist of street guys. When we go out its a majority decision to go to a hip hop club or strip joint rather than a bar or mixed spot. I have no women right now. Ive mastered the art of enjoying my own company and being independent. But its been 5 years since i've had a real plate. I want to meet women but theres no opportunities. In order to meet the type of women I attract ill haveto go out alone. Whenever I do the awkwardness is overwhelming, even leaving looks horrible. Do I have to just straight up blast thru the awkwardness and force myself into it? Or are there some things i have to tweak? Ive had some very nice women in the past but they were all from my job. No women at my new job.
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Riprock713
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I would just go out and not be too picky. Talk to Everyone and see what happens!
SmooveMooves
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Goto places where women you want to meet are. I think you're overthinking & making it way harder than it needs to be.
I'm just like you, bro. Same height and everything, except I'm probably in better shape since I workout regularly. (Another great thing to add if you don't already)
I just go to where the Hispanic and mixed chicks or chicks interested in are. Usually with a friend.
Another reason why its good to have a big social circle. I have friends of all races and cultures that I can hang out with and as a result be exposed to different things.
Be friendly, make some new friends ( as gay as it sounds) and try new things. If its been 5 years and you're not happy with what you're doing or where you're heading, that means it's time for a change.
Good luck.
I'm just like you, bro. Same height and everything, except I'm probably in better shape since I workout regularly. (Another great thing to add if you don't already)
I just go to where the Hispanic and mixed chicks or chicks interested in are. Usually with a friend.
Another reason why its good to have a big social circle. I have friends of all races and cultures that I can hang out with and as a result be exposed to different things.
Be friendly, make some new friends ( as gay as it sounds) and try new things. If its been 5 years and you're not happy with what you're doing or where you're heading, that means it's time for a change.
Good luck.
Sounds like your priorities are changing, OP. Thus, your behavior will have to change too. If your friends don't go to places where you can meet women, you'll either need to go out alone or find new friends.
If you keep doing the same things, then you'll keep getting the same results.
Meeting women isn't rocket science. You'll know how much you want it by whether or not your behavior changes.
If you keep doing the same things, then you'll keep getting the same results.
Meeting women isn't rocket science. You'll know how much you want it by whether or not your behavior changes.