"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do i get this girl?

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okay, so i am still new to this. There's the girl in my spanish class and she's my partner. She's pretty hot. So she talked to me first saying

her: are you so and so's friend?
me: ya you are?
her: oh she talks about you all the time.
me: oh yeh she's my lab partner (my labpartner has a bf so it doesnt matter)
her: yeah

So that was it........ for the first day of school.
She sits right next to me.
What should i do? I have absolutely no idea how things go.

Do i talk to her a bit? Get her number? Call her later on to chat? Idk what to do.
Should i ask her out to a group going out or something?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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619joe

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Just chill man.Dont worry about the number man it usually comes without you even trying.

Joke around in class!Make her love to be in the class with you!

Open up with some French dialogue.Then be like "WTF I thought this was french.Damn I gotta transfer out". Ive used that before even in the middle of my spanish year and it was hilarious.

What I also like to do is when the teacher asks us to pair up and I have a girl beside me this is what I do

Me: Whos your partner gonna be?(Before she can answer that its you,say) See cause Im not sure who I am going to choose.Its a pretty tough choice * looks around the room *
 
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Ask her to hang out.
 
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Just strike up conversation, man. Ask about her life, and be genuinely interested and intrigued by her. Girls love it when they can grab your attention. Listen to what she's gotta say and base questions from stories and other stuff she tells you.
 
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