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How do I get invited to High school parties

kulowiper

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I am a 17 year old dude with an over protective parent see thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83991 Finally after 17 years I can go out. But the problem is I have no friends to go with on a Saturday Night!!!!!!! LoL so how the hell in high school do I get invited to parties you know were you get drunk and get Laid w/o any effort. Any tips on how to get invited to a party with beutifull biitches?
 

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The Master Disaster

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You have to go to a party even if your not invited and show your fun to hang out with. Then people will tell you about future parties.
 

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i think something that goes along with not being invited is not having people to go with, or just not knowing about them
 

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Originally posted by joe5046
i think something that goes along with not being invited is not having people to go with, or just not knowing about them
its just about just not knowing about the party
 

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or not being able to get there, w/e


anyways, im like the kind of guy that creeps everyone out.... like the only reason people ever come to me is help with school, im not the smartest guy in school, but im one of them. anyways, i do have a problem with making friends/going out, and i cant quite figure out exactly what the problem is... part of it is my mom, but i know part of it is also me
 

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kulowiper

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does anyone have any solutions from guys that go out on Saturday nights
 

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i dunno... i mean it was hell just to make my mom let me go out with my cousin, i dunno what she'll think when i start going out to random peoples houses to party
 

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How about, invite out some of the guys that go to the partys, just become freinds with them. When you do that then you can tag along to the partys.
 

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Ahh good idea. At the last minute, maybe Thursday, ask them to do something saturday night. They'll say they are busy going to a party, you say no worries I'll go along to that with you instead then.

Of course, you need to befriend them a bit first.
 

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nice tip
 

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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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