"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do I get her to F me and leave intead of sleep over

Greasy Pig

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I was always honest with chicks and just said: "Sorry, no sleepover rule".
I think it was off the movie Good Luck Chuck or My Best Friend's Girl or something.
Say it with a smile and a twinkle in your eye but be firm. Set the ground rules early and make her realise sleeping over is something she has to earn.

Alternatively, do what someone else said and just fvck em at their place.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Duke

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Girls are like little puppies, if you want them to behave to your expectations then start early and be firm with the boundaries you set. Its a lot harder after the cats out of the bag! ;-)

I'd recommend to only do the deed at her place. Save your place for girls you are actually into.
 

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Tell her you have an STD after you smash
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I was always honest with chicks and just said: "Sorry, no sleepover rule".
I think it was off the movie Good Luck Chuck or My Best Friend's Girl or something.
Say it with a smile and a twinkle in your eye but be firm. Set the ground rules early and make her realise sleeping over is something she has to earn.

Alternatively, do what someone else said and just fvck em at their place.
Howiestern said:
I'd recommend to only do the deed at her place. Save your place for girls you are actually into.


The thing is she already slept over twice. It was fun, especially going another round or 2 first thing in the morning. I guess I'm just not that into her anymore.
 
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