"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I get her on my nuts?

glocc

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so theres this girl i met, super bomb looking. and at first i just wanted to fck her but then i started to like her as we hungout more. the last time we hung out was about 2 weeks ago. well long story short she ended up sleeping in the same bed that night, and nothing happend, I put my hand up on her chest when we were laying down and she was like stop it i told you im not like that. I know she likes me back, but she always sends mixed signals! she doesnt txt back a lot of the time and never calls back when she says she does. what should i do as of now to get her on my nuts and liking me more?! Thanks dj's ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scars

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Continue being sexual with her and act like it never happened.

It was most likely just an anti-slvt defense. You probably could have smooth talked to your way into it, but the important thing is you at least tried. That's better than I can say for most of the guys here.

Just keep doing your thing, and remember to never make her feel like a slvt, or guilty of anything. Next time she says something like that just say "I know you're not like that baby." Feed her head with what she wants to hear. Tell her how good of a girl she is, how she's not like anything other girls and isn't a slvt blah blah. Get her feeling good and then try again. Stay persistent, just don't be creepy about it.

Good luck.

-Scars
 

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Man your on the right track, you gave it a shot at least. Just don't start making her uncomfortable all the time and no matter what don't start *****ing about anything, you wanna be the man not the cry baby. When you get her into your bed again just follow scar's advice it sounds pretty solid.

Remember, all girls are sluts deep down, they just don't like the label.
 

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haha good advice i'll use it this week, i told my friend about this and he told me to grab him like she grabbed my hand when she told me to stop. and he said oh she grabbed your hand tight that meant she was horny. so i guess i was right ha. but what should i do about her txting me and playing games. just wait for her to txt back? she also flakes a lot when we make plans, but when i hit her up to hangout the day of she's agreed and we've hungout. do you think i should just hit her up the day of or make plans? and how should i respond to her txt to make her attraction grow?
 
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